Cheaters!!!(on ppl.. Relationships)

by **Ivy** » Feb 4th, '06, 21:50

If I met an amazing guy that my boyfriend couldn't compare to, which I doubt that would happen, then no matter how it would hurt me or him, I would have the "balls" to tell him to his face...not cheat on him, not call him up and say that it's over, and not send him a letter...I wouldn't want it done to me, so I wouldn't do it to someone else....I know I'd probably be going around my elbow to get to my ass in trying to say that it's over, but eventually in the conversation I'd say what I needed to say all along...and I wouldn't be the type to say it's over....and then that's it...If they asked me why? I'd have it in me to tell them why.....

by **Ivy** » Feb 4th, '06, 22:04

Me too...but still...the thought of it crossing my mind I would have to have a little plan that way I can make sure that I wouldn't just leave them and they come home after work and be like wtf and my stuff be gone...I wouldn't want it done to me, I wouldn't do it to someone else...

by **Ivy** » Feb 4th, '06, 22:10

I can relate to that in an extent..but we all everynow and then treat people harshly or in such a manner that we wouldn't want to be...you know?????????

by **Ivy** » Feb 4th, '06, 22:15

Yeah, cheating is a little out of the extreme...I mean talking behind someone's back when you know you wouldn't want it to happen to you is one thing..but going and fucking another person and not wanting it to happen to you is well, fucked up...ya know...

by **Ivy** » Feb 4th, '06, 22:33

Precisely, same here....

by **Vettori** » Feb 5th, '06, 08:50

First off I wouldn't cheat in a relationship , Second off, I have only had 1 relationship which didn't work out too well, "not having the problem too be with me" by the way.....and third, It's just not right...Love ain't a game, But i can see why certain people do, It's because there kinda gettin sick of the way lifes treatin em as it is, theres more behind other people then we really no, But yea i wouldn't in my opinion, But thene again, in the years to come, My opinion can change
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by **ines** » Feb 6th, '06, 12:27

yes, many times

by **Hocky27** » Feb 7th, '06, 08:59

If you get married then cheating is wrong. But whilst you are young it doesnt really matter all that much. Everyone at least once in their life will feel heartbroken.

by **Hocky27** » Feb 7th, '06, 10:55

Yeah but you go into those relationships knowing that they wont last forever. Plus i rather play the field and this age.

by **ines** » Feb 7th, '06, 11:35

so, i have done that, but he it's my life okay, and i know what i am doing okay.

by **ines** » Feb 7th, '06, 12:21

i don't know, just because i was bored or something.it happens all the time.and i now i don't do it again.but i am glad to have a boyfriend that is not jealous at other boys.i have only boys as friends, so, for him is it okay when they're coming boys to me and gave me a kiss, nothing more then that.it's just a friends kiss, and that's all.we say hi to or friends like that

by **clique111** » Feb 8th, '06, 22:18

AspirinE wrote:Ive cheated, ive been cheated on.... As long as ur smart enough to pull it off then its ok to do it. but if its a marriage- hell NO! Marriage means u commit..

or when you really love someone....then you don't have to cheat. you don't want

by **$0 R3@L** » Feb 11th, '06, 05:54

if you love someone you wont cheat, if you dont love someone you will cheat.Since the start of time there has been temptation to do wrong and as long as you walk this eart that same temptation will always remain.Whether its good or bad depends whether youre a stronger enough person to deny the temptation.

by **Double U** » Feb 19th, '06, 01:36

by **Mr. Cookie** » Feb 19th, '06, 01:46

never cheated and never will

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