Hitting Women

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Wtf? Have you ever seen TV? Women fight ALL the time. Men fight more often with other men sure, but don't try to paint women out to be these peace loving saints that avoid violence at all costs[/quote]

i never said that, im not talking about nasty girls that appears on the tv, there are a lot of gilrs that are always fighting most of them just to get attention, im not talking about them, ive had a lot of arguemtns with girls but ive never had a fight with anyone

it's RIDICULOUS that women can fly off the handle and the person their flying off at is expected to keep their composure like nothing's going on. Should they? Yes. But is it unreasonable if they don't? No.

thats why I said that sometimes we cant control ourself (women or men) and its normal that everybody lose their composure , we are humans but like i said we should avoid it

Just like women should control themselves and take their own advice "walk away" or something.

i agree

the only thing I've heard is "because women are weak, feeble, and completely unable to defend themselves against the superior power that is man" which is interesting to me. Every single female stereotype has been reinforced in this thread yet and still people are talking like there's no water to they male side of the argument.

I understand perfectly that man defend theirself and if a women cheat on him, he can lose his composure and he can slap her, but thats it, thats the only moment i see a man should slap a girl (and vice versa)
lets talk about Chris Brown and rihanna, i know u defend him and u think she is a liar and all that, but look at her face, its not like if he just slap her, she got beaten, thats what i dont see fair and thats what i dont defend, at the same time i dont defend a woman doing the same to a man, its not right

You don't see kittens attacking lions do you? No. Why? Because they know they'll lose that fight. You don't see me spitting on Mike Tyson do you? No. Why? Because A.) You can't see America from Spain and B.) Because I know he'd beat my fucking ass.

kittens and lions arent ususally in contact, men and women are
so ure saying that just because u guys are stronger we shouldnt touch u and we should accpet everything u do and everything u say

So if men are being held to these rules about self control then women should be as well.

thats what i said before, we all should try to control ourself
If i were with a guy and i cheated on him or if i did somethin that really hurt him, i would understan that he slap me because he is a human and he can lose his composure, but just once and just if he apologised after i apologised for what i did. If he hit me more than once, that would mean that he is too violonce and i wouldnt be with him

[James R.]

i never said that, im not talking about nasty girls that appears on the tv, there are a lot of gilrs that are always fighting most of them just to get attention, im not talking about them, ive had a lot of arguemtns with girls but ive never had a fight with anyone
But this debate is about women as a whole. So it's good that you're not like that, but it's not uncommon for a woman to be like that

I think Chris Brown is an idiot. He KNEW that this would blow up in the worst way possible. He's smarter than that. He's not a dumb person and he has enough people in his ear telling him what he needs to do that there should be no confusion. And he's an overall good guy. THAT is why I defend him. I'm defending him against idiots who think that just because he has a dick this entire thing is his fault. That just because Rihanna is a girl she's innocent. Well I WILL NOT believe that until it's proven. People are slating Chris as this horrible person and it's bull shit.

So until you prove to me that Rihanna didn't A.) start the fight and B.) Continue fighting back Chris Brown will have my support in this onslaught of blind support for Rihanna. Rihanna is supposed to be the spokeswoman for battered women and all that shit. She's not even that injured. Jesus Christ you people have never seen an ACTUAL beaten woman. You couldn't have or else you'd think that this entire thing was being blown out of proportion.

It just seems strange to me that someone (Rihanna) with a history of violence against people around her (i.e. breaking a bottle on her little brother's head) is so easily painted out to be a good guy while someone (Chris Brown) who was a victim of abuse is AUTOMATICALLY the bad guy. And why? Because he's a guy. Because of his sex he's held more accountable for what happened. That's stupid. Had he just up and beat her ass for no reason then I'd still hate Rihanna because she fucking sucks, but I wouldn't support Chris.

So until it's been proven that this wasn't an equally active altercation then putting Chris Brown out to hang and be "made an example of" or w/e people want is not only stupid, but fucking retarded.

[quote="bom-bom wrote:kittens and lions arent ususally in contact, men and women are
so ure saying that just because u guys are stronger we shouldnt touch u and we should accpet everything u do and everything u say

When did i say you should accept everything we say? You can argue. And if you don't like a situation you can leave. My point was since women obviously know that they're weak and physically (naturally) useless then they should know better than to start fights with someone that is physically superior. That is unless they're unable to control their emotions and are stupid. A better example would be you don't see a gazelle attacking a lion, do you?