CAN LUST DEVELOP INTO LOVE??

[kalbird]

Am kinda puzzled and i need yo opinions on this. Can lust develop into a love affair?
Not so long ago i met this girl and my only aim was a one night stand but in the twist of events we kinda fell for each other but am scared in giving my heart to her cause all i wanted was to lay her and nothing more but now shit has gotten deep. So the question is,with my lust can i really keep this relationship or its bound to fall flat on its face coz hooking up has always been my thing n i aint been into a serious relationship!!! So wat do u guys think???

[Robbie G]

Speaking with no experience here, but I don't see why it couldn't.

[Darkblade44431]

If you think you're ready to try for a serious relationship, then try it. You need a first time for it sometime anyways. Good luck with your problem.

[James R.]

Sure. Everything starts as lust. You rarely look at a girl and say "I bet she has a great personality. I'd like to get to know her and make her my girlfriend." You're usually sexually/lustfully attracted to someone, so most relationships start from lust.

[Call Me Pik]

Am kinda puzzled and i need yo opinions on this. Can lust develop into a love affair?
Not so long ago i met this girl and my only aim was a one night stand but in the twist of events we kinda fell for each other but am scared in giving my heart to her cause all i wanted was to lay her and nothing more but now shit has gotten deep. So the question is,with my lust can i really keep this relationship or its bound to fall flat on its face coz hooking up has always been my thing n i aint been into a serious relationship!!! So wat do u guys think???

i think it depends on how old you are if ur around 20 somethin then go for it if ur in highschool id say play the field serious relationship can be alooooooooooot of drama when ur not ready for it n u shud focus more on whats important education wise

i know u cant make a how a house wife

but u also cant have a one night stand more then once with the same person kuz then ur jus leading the other person on n if u have she prolly already thinks u made that commitment so good luck gettin outta that one

[bom-bom]

Sure. Everything starts as lust. You rarely look at a girl and say "I bet she has a great personality. I'd like to get to know her and make her my girlfriend." You're usually sexually/lustfully attracted to someone, so most relationships start from lust.

yeah i agree, if u like her go for her man, like someone sayd there will be a first time for it, so why not now? u have nothing to lose, u shouldnt be scared in giving ur hear to someone..its gonna happen sometime, now or later.

[<Stiiccy>]

usually if theres no lust then there can be no love...

[neb121]

if you have lust i think it means love.

if its just a one night stand thats diff from lust.

[Robbie G]

if you have lust i think it means love.

Lust is much different than love. I view lust as only an interest in somebodies body and love as being attracted physically both and emotionally.

[Call Me Pik]

dat would be a physical attraction

n love is when u look at ur spouse an u think that u could see ur self spending eternity with them n no 1 else could ever come close

lust is when u have a fixation on seeing , messing around, dating, and becoming closer with the other person. When it comes to spending forever with the person your mind tells you it would be a bad idea to take that leap

most everybody is in lust these days love is very hard to come by..lust is not a one night stand its not a fling lust is thinking u luv the girl but when it comes down 2 it u could see urself leaving if shit gets 2 hectic

[Call Me Pik]

2 me lust isnt bound to sexual desire ... i think if u have a desire to have a relationship nething other then serious then its lust ...i think if your not willing to spend forever with that person its lust...and i take lust as false love basically fools love lol

thats just the conotation i got from it but who knows im not webster

[kalbird]

Sure. Everything starts as lust. You rarely look at a girl and say "I bet she has a great personality. I'd like to get to know her and make her my girlfriend." You're usually sexually/lustfully attracted to someone, so most relationships start from lust.

yeah i agree, if u like her go for her man, like someone sayd there will be a first time for it, so why not now? u have nothing to lose, u shouldnt be scared in giving ur hear to someone..its gonna happen sometime, now or later.

Yeah! u damn right,i'ma go for it right now coz i think the time is kinda approprite.

[Kez]

You rarely look at a girl and say "I bet she has a great personality. I'd like to get to know her and make her my girlfriend."

I feel really stupid, but that's exactly what i would do.


Probably why i'm still single.

[Darkblade44431]

dat would be a physical attraction

n love is when u look at ur spouse an u think that u could see ur self spending eternity with them n no 1 else could ever come close

lust is when u have a fixation on seeing , messing around, dating, and becoming closer with the other person. When it comes to spending forever with the person your mind tells you it would be a bad idea to take that leap

most everybody is in lust these days love is very hard to come by..lust is not a one night stand its not a fling lust is thinking u luv the girl but when it comes down 2 it u could see urself leaving if shit gets 2 hectic

Wow, that was actually a really good definition. Congrats. I'm going to use that to explain to people now, lol. So many people think they know what love is and don't, and just, bleh....
thanks for clearing things up.

[Ice_Scarred]

Physical Attraction is usually the start of Romantic relationships, so of course.