what the hell..?

[Darkblade44431]

Okay, first of all, nobody give me this bullshit about being too young. There isn't a specific age you have to be..
Anyways, so is this just me? Or do so many freaking people think they know what love is when they really have no idea?..
Some people just think they are in love when they hardly even know the person..
there is a HUGE difference between liking someone, and loving them.

Thoughts, anyone..?

[picture me rollin]

i agree love has no age.n yeah many people confuse love n like.sometimez people go into relationships 2 quick not knowin that other person well enough 2 know if what they got is love or not.but there r sum instinces where u do fall in love on 1st sight n stay in luv but thatz rare.

[James R.]

I think it all comes with experience. I mean when you're little you're taught that loving someone is caring about them a lot. So anyone you care about you think you love. Then as you get older you learn that it's more that just caring about someone, and your definition is redefined. Sometimes you're taught that love and sex go hand in hand. Sometimes you can't decide if you love someone or if you're in love with them. To love someone like family would be different than loving someone like a girlfriend or something. I'm 19 and still don't know what the fuck love is. I just roll with the punches.

I don't think anyone KNOWS. I mean has anyone ever explained it to you? And if they have has it been the same exact thing as the way someone else did? It's not like a dictionary definition. I feel like when people are happiest with a person they just decide that that's what love is and stop searching for answers otherwise they'd never know because it's a definition that evolves so much as your learn, experience, and become new things.

[Darkblade44431]

Good answers people.
James, i agree, everyone has their own definition of it.
I personally think, in a short version here, it's when you couldn't feel stronger about them, you couldn't like another, you would try your best to fix things when things weren't going so well, care about your significant other no matter what, and they never really leave your heart(even if the feelings towards him/her as more than a friend go away). It's a bit hard for me to explain that last part..But, yeah, that's pretty much what it is for me i guess.

[yoshi]

wow, few months ago you almost e-stabbed me with an e-pitchfork because i e-said exactly the same e-thing.

[theJFKshow]

Okay, first of all, nobody give me this bullshit about being too young. There isn't a specific age you have to be..
Anyways, so is this just me? Or do so many freaking people think they know what love is when they really have no idea?..
Some people just think they are in love when they hardly even know the person..
there is a HUGE difference between liking someone, and loving them.

Thoughts, anyone..?

How old are you? 13?

[yoshi]

How old are you? 13?

about 16 i believe.

[rahul.never2far]

Well I'm 18... officially adult

These days seeing people confused between liking and love is pretty common... and like James said everyone got their own definition of love.... here's mine

Love... its the most weird thing I think... its just difficult to express... It makes u feel happy, it makes u feel sad... it will make u feel like the u r on the top of the world but the next moment it can make u feel like u r the worst person of the world (specially when u hurt the person u love)... it makes u feel filled, it makes u feel lonely (especially when that special one is away from u)... it make u feel cold, it makes u warm... in short it makes u feel each and every emotion that exist in this world...

They say in love its there are just few moments of delight and then its lifetime grief.... but I say I ready to give my life up for those few moments of bliss

Well, I love a gal... she calls me her best friend... its a one sided love though... and all I wanna see is her smile... I'm ready to do anything possible just to see her smile... see her happy... and if its with me I would be luckiest person on this fucking earth and even if its some other guy, its kool.... it would hard though cause even now when she start talking about any other guy too much I start feeling kinda insecure... Damn! its tough... but there is one positive thing though she denied whenever anyone proposed her...

PS: I'm not a expressive kinda person but probably this is the best I could do

[kalbird]

Okay, first of all, nobody give me this bullshit about being too young. There isn't a specific age you have to be..
Anyways, so is this just me? Or do so many freaking people think they know what love is when they really have no idea?..
Some people just think they are in love when they hardly even know the person..
there is a HUGE difference between liking someone, and loving them.

Thoughts, anyone..?

How old are you? 13?

No,yo wrong. I think he's 10

[Darkblade44431]

Well I'm 18... officially adult

These days seeing people confused between liking and love is pretty common... and like James said everyone got their own definition of love.... here's mine

Love... its the most weird thing I think... its just difficult to express... It makes u feel happy, it makes u feel sad... it will make u feel like the u r on the top of the world but the next moment it can make u feel like u r the worst person of the world (specially when u hurt the person u love)... it makes u feel filled, it makes u feel lonely (especially when that special one is away from u)... it make u feel cold, it makes u warm... in short it makes u feel each and every emotion that exist in this world...

They say in love its there are just few moments of delight and then its lifetime grief.... but I say I ready to give my life up for those few moments of bliss

Well, I love a gal... she calls me her best friend... its a one sided love though... and all I wanna see is her smile... I'm ready to do anything possible just to see her smile... see her happy... and if its with me I would be luckiest person on this fucking earth and even if its some other guy, its kool.... it would hard though cause even now when she start talking about any other guy too much I start feeling kinda insecure... Damn! its tough... but there is one positive thing though she denied whenever anyone proposed her...

PS: I'm not a expressive kinda person but probably this is the best I could do

Great description, thanks for Sharing.


And, Yoshi, no, you said people my age were incapable of being in love. You also stated you haven't ever been in love, if i remember correctly. Well if i'm right on that, then you shouldn't be talking about when you can and can't be in love.

And i'm 15.

[yoshi]

And, Yoshi, no, you said people my age were incapable of being in love. You also stated you haven't ever been in love, if i remember correctly. Well if i'm right on that, then you shouldn't be talking about when you can and can't be in love.

And i'm 15.

the good news is that i was close to being right about your age.

the bad news is that you don't remember correctly, because what i stated was that i'd never had sex before our discussion took place. since you weren't right on that, i've got every right to talk about "when you can and can't be in love", however stupid it sounds.

[theJFKshow]

Why the fuck do you guys write paragraph after paragraph on here, wasting time debating about BEING IN LOVE?

Jesus Christ start playing WoW or something.

[yoshi]

i'm stuck on Windows FreeCell

[yoshi]

the bad news is that you don't remember correctly, because what i stated was that i'd never had sex before our discussion took place.

I remember that thread!

me too, i really enjoyed the deep discussion. my sociology teacher would've been proud of me ahh