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Cheaters!!!(on ppl.. Relationships)

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Have you ever cheated.. on a bf.gf.. relationships?

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Postby Ivy » Feb 1st, '06, 02:51

I posted this in another topic but still...this is why I'd never cheat.

Yeah, I can't stand people who do that, my mom did it to my dad...and I was the one who caught her and had to tell my dad...it took all he had to keep his composure in front of me...I would never do that..I mean how would you feel about your kid having to tell you your significant other is having an affair?
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Postby MuNxMuN » Feb 1st, '06, 02:55

i've never cheated on anyone and i agree with you angie if you don't love the person you should just tell the person. if you tell them it'll hurt the person less then when they find out
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Postby Ivy » Feb 1st, '06, 02:57

Angie wrote:
taylorakatiggi wrote:I posted this in another topic but still...this is why I'd never cheat.

Yeah, I can't stand people who do that, my mom did it to my dad...and I was the one who caught her and had to tell my dad...it took all he had to keep his composure in front of me...I would never do that..I mean how would you feel about your kid having to tell you your significant other is having an affair?
i been there done that.. i know how it feels.. still cant get over it... :( it was hard 2 tell my mom.. and even worst when she took him back... :'( try to forget and block it out.. but once in a while it all come back.. i see him and i see her :'( :'( :'( i just wanna find her and kick her ass... :shakehead: shit his 2.. fucker son of a :swear: .. and the worst think is my mom didnt dont.. deserve shit like that :'( she might be a bitch at times but has gave all she got to us.. :'( :'( :( :( :(

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Same thing happened except my dad tried to work things out, but she kept fucking around, so he said fuck it...he filed for divorce and less than 30 days later she was gone...
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Postby AspirinE » Feb 1st, '06, 09:27

Ive cheated, ive been cheated on.... As long as ur smart enough to pull it off then its ok to do it. but if its a marriage- hell NO! Marriage means u commit..
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Postby AspirinE » Feb 1st, '06, 09:57

Sarah wrote:I don't think you should even do it even if you're in a ralationship with just a boyfriend/girlfriend. Cos if the other person loves you then you're still gonna hurt them when they find out. And then it leaves you feeling guilty


Wen ur 16 u dont love... its just games... u think u love but you dont.
At that age u love the drama,.
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Postby AspirinE » Feb 1st, '06, 10:02

Sarah wrote:Yeah I guess thats right but it's still not fair to the other person..


At that age its better to be free wen it comes to a sexual relationship, coz u will want to experience the best of wat u can get, before u start devote relationships.

Right now i would never cheat.... it just isnt exceptable anymore.
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Postby the_cat_in_the_hat » Feb 1st, '06, 11:49

I don't think you guys are that honest.......100%
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Postby AspirinE » Feb 1st, '06, 11:54

the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:I don't think you guys are that honest.......100%



care to explain?
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Postby the_cat_in_the_hat » Feb 1st, '06, 13:17

AspirinE wrote:
the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:I don't think you guys are that honest.......100%



care to explain?


Uhhm. I don't believe that 100% of tou guys didn't cheat---that's impossible.
Many people cheat.....
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Postby AspirinE » Feb 1st, '06, 13:21

the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:
AspirinE wrote:
the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:I don't think you guys are that honest.......100%



care to explain?


Uhhm. I don't believe that 100% of tou guys didn't cheat---that's impossible.
Many people cheat.....


Ohh.. lol, actually if ur feeling atached u dont usually cheat. :p
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Postby the_cat_in_the_hat » Feb 1st, '06, 13:26

AspirinE wrote:
the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:
AspirinE wrote:
the_cat_in_the_hat wrote:I don't think you guys are that honest.......100%



care to explain?


Uhhm. I don't believe that 100% of tou guys didn't cheat---that's impossible.
Many people cheat.....


Ohh.. lol, actually if ur feeling atached u dont usually cheat. :p


except me, of course!
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Postby the_cat_in_the_hat » Feb 1st, '06, 13:31

Sarah wrote:^You mean you cheat on people?


no comment.... :zipped:
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Postby Fi.J. » Feb 1st, '06, 16:27

I've never cheated n was never cheated on fortunately!! ;) :smoking:
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Postby Curious » Feb 1st, '06, 18:19

Well, I already revealed in another post that I've cheated on my ex-bf and it's the worst mistake i ever made.
I'm not going to go into why I did it, I had my reasons, but still that doesn't make it right - when somebody gives you your heart and trust and commitment you have an obligation to treasure this, be honest with them and do your utmost not to hurt them.
It's absolutely devastating to a relationship when you cheat on your partner, you cause so much hurt and pain and whatever you do you can never totally fix it, there will always be this tiny grain of resentment and distrust left.

I agree with Asp (for once :D ) that it's different when you're a teen and not in a deeply committed relationship, but it's just because there's not so much at stake for the cheater cause you're still hurting someone really bad, so I still don't think it's okay to cheat when you're younger either...

I'm sorry Angie and Taylor that you had such a tough experience with your parents, that must've been really hard to cope with.
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Postby jessicarose_8806 » Feb 2nd, '06, 02:24

i never did but if the bastard cheats on me then i will right back
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