Fellas, Remember When...

[CrashBand]

...A slut was a rarity? I remember the term being used sparingly and whenever it was used, it was legitimate and had meaning behind it. It seemed like for every 30 girls, you'd find out one or two of them was a "slut" and it was like "woah...".

How come it seems the other way around these days? I've known and seen so many girls who present themselves as good and turn out to just be straight nasty. It's discouraging, to be honest - I wouldn't want my wife to be remembered by her classmates as a slut, nor would I want my daughters to follow that path but it seems to be the NORM to be slutty these days.

This was inspired by a little conversation Blu and I had in that "Last Post Wins" thread the other day.

Thoughts?

My thoughts on the OP.

It's a good thing.

Not the fact you are calling them sluts and implying that it's bad. It's a pity this still happens.

It's a good thing society is becoming less sexist and girls are becoming less ashamed to sleep around.
Girls should be 'proud' of fucking an attractive guy that they enjoyed the sex with the same way a guy would be 'proud' in having an amazing night with a beautiful girl.

Certainly not ashamed.

[CrashBand]

What's worse is kids who continuously get pregnant and just go get abortions, then continue on. It pisses me off, slut, keep that kid or drop dead. At the very least, abortion should cost money after the first time.

Whores smh.

and fuck that's ignorant man. Abortions can be such a huge deal for people, even 'sluts'.

Us guys are just fucking fortunate we don't have to worry about that specific consequence.

BUT, the one thing I hate is when these girls start to cry or throw a fit whenever someone calls them a "slut" or "whore".

If someone is being demeaning about it then why should these girls not feel sad about it.

Oh and I have fucked two virgins... Terrrrrible sex! Sluts are heaps of fun but. Heaps and heaps of fun.

This. To be honest. I fucked one in my flatmates bed and he was fuming.

It's like the dumb chick was trying her hardest to make sure it was the worst sex possible.

[CrashBand]

Yeah but there should be nothing to be ashamed of from having sex. Whether it's a one night stand, relationship or several.

But girls are made to feel ashamed. Whereas guys aren't.

In the very thread people are judging 'sluts' the same people then applaud Slik for a funny sex story.

[CrashBand]

Yeah people can not agree with promiscuity. But it certainly comes down a lot harder on females.

Would you lose respect for Slik hypothetically if you found out he had knocked a tidy number of girls off of his hitlist?

Because you have heavily implied you lose respect for girls when you find out they are 'massive sluts'. This is where the double standard slips in a bit. No doubt influenced by the sexism in society when it comes to this specific matter.

[CrashBand]

^ It's not a bad thing that being a 'slut' is becoming less of an abomination nowadays.

I agree with your second point though.

[Amaranthine]

Yeah but there should be nothing to be ashamed of from having sex. Whether it's a one night stand, relationship or several.

But girls are made to feel ashamed. Whereas guys aren't.

In the very thread people are judging 'sluts' the same people then applaud Slik for a funny sex story.

You have a point...I just don't agree with it fully. I don't also agree with men sleeping with three dozen women, that shit is nasty too, no doubt.

LOL so the guys get to sleep with 12+ women before they get judged, but the women...

When I know the girl had more than 3 boys ( withing 2 years orso) I don't look at them as potential anymore though

Word...I know a girl who demolishes that number within a year...

Question.

What's the maximum amount of guys you would accept your girlfriend fucking? Like...would you only date a girl who has a maximum of one previous dude, two, three etc.

Depends on how far she has gone with 'em, if it was a relationship that included sex i would say 2 TOP if without sex and only kiss shit i could live with it (even though that has its limits aswel )


edit : imma make that 2

Question.

What's the maximum amount of guys you would accept your girlfriend fucking? Like...would you only date a girl who has a maximum of one previous dude, two, three etc.

I would prefer a virgin tbh , I could go back home and just pick and choose...but than again it may not be real love.

If she been with multiple guys I wouldn't want her but if let's say like maybe 5 max , I would be OK with that as long as I am her last guy.

A chicks pussy can get tight again very easily.

Question.

What's the maximum amount of guys you would accept your girlfriend fucking? Like...would you only date a girl who has a maximum of one previous dude, two, three etc.

Probably two, but ideally I'd want to be her first. I know that'll probably not ever happen so yeah, two.

[the real slim shady]

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double standards

[Trimss]

I remember that "lock and key" analogy, someone said "a key that opens every lock is a great key, but a lock that is opened by every key is a bad lock"

Not that I'm disagreeing with you, I actually agree with your point, I just remembered it and thought it was humorous enough to post.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=143397&p=1858091&hilit=+key#p1858091

Spot on.

[Amaranthine]

So then what's your cap on partners for a guy?

[CrashBand]

Nah, I really don't agree with any of it. I've already said that I believe male sluts are just as bad as female sluts.

The problem is, consciously or not, people don't tend to think it's as bad for guys.

and@ Menzo I'm not sure if serious (genuinely).

[CrashBand]

The one above mine.

But I hadn't read your previous one. So I get you don't want a girlfriend who has been a 'slut'.

So would you then be okay with 'sluts' that you weren't planning on dating?

[Trimss]

Menzo facepalmed Amaranthine.. Guess what that means..

[CrashBand]

The one above mine.

But I hadn't read your previous one. So I get you don't want a girlfriend who has been a 'slut'.

So would you then be okay with 'sluts' that you weren't planning on dating?

Uh...well, about the one above yours...yes. I don't care what another man does, I'm concerned about myself. Personally, I feel like I have too much self respect to just...sleep with anyone at pure random. I dunno, that's something with me.

I guess that kinda answers your question too. Random sluts, I'm skeptical because if they're willing to go far enough with me then that obviously means it's happened X amount of times prior and will continue X amount of times after...and I'd rather not have to visit the clinic to make sure I didn't catch anything.

I meant someone you had no intention ever sleeping with either.

Like a chick at your school. If you found out she was a slut. Would there be a problem?

[Amaranthine]

^And that's hilarious.

[CrashBand]

So then what's your cap on partners for a guy?

I'd say 5-6 tbh, but the thing is that people in general find it gay/lame/whatever when a guy only sleeps with one girl or remains a virgin for a long time whilst it's the complete opposite with girls

You admit there is a problem. Yet you conform with it.

Guys are pressured to have lots of sex otherwise they are seen as 'faggots' and the opposite for girls.

This is fucked.

Yet you have these arbitrary limits that differ for genders.