Why do people change when they get in a relationship

[xRas]

What abram typed

[Sam.]

What abram typed

[Sam.]

What Menzo typed.

[xRas]

Yeah an that init

[Wreck]

your obviously a virgin Fleka,

He wants the pussy and the pussy is keeping him tied down
im assuming this "friend " of yours is a young kid and thats why he is in love with this girl.
Pussy changes a lot of people
#macdaddyspeaksthetruth

You're a nitwit.

But if this thread was on Facebook I'd like it a million & one times. Agree with you so much on this Fleka.

Watch Chris Rock's Never Scared segment on relationship, he basically explains in humor what you just said, and it is dead on.

[Wreck]

look bro,recess time,you in a school,do you chill with ya friends or with a girl that aint in ya class that you like/love/wannafuck?

FUCKING THOUGHT SO!

Depends on the importance of each group. Normally I'd chill with my friends, if a chick popped up I'mma chase her until I have her or she files a restraining order. My friends would even support me tbh.

Yep.

[Kez]

how about going the easy route,and get a girlfriend who was a friend of yours before?

Doesn't make any difference at all. I've seen it, trust me.

I agree completely with you OP

[Fleka]

Women change men and men change women, even if you are hardcore "bros before hos", you will change when you meet, or at least feel like you've met that girl.

Some guys are actually just pussies though and throughout their teenage years they didn't experience the relationship aspect of life as a younger person and now that they are older and free from family shackles, they find a girl and are head over heels for the bitch (something that should've been experienced back when they were a teen). And I'm not one of those guys who thinks a guy is a pussy because he is didn't have many female affiliates as a teen, I think he's a pussy for being a *insert age here* year old man who acts like he's 10 years younger than he should. I know a few guys like that and it infuriates me.

Let him experience it, let him experience heart break and let him come back to you guys talking about how he hates her so much and how she's a slut and how he can't ever see himself getting into a relationship again and would rather stick to boning random bitches from a club or bar. I'm confident that most of us have or will have had to hear this speech from a friend and no matter what advice you give or how badly you bite your tongue from whipping out an, "I told you so you fuckin idiot", you gotta be a bro about it.

They should revise the statement: "Bros before hos unless you meet a ho, ignore your bros til your heart is broke and you go back to your bros again like you were always bros, bro".

There is no way back for him. Things he did and said destroyed our friendship. I just don`t want him to be my friend any more. No matter what happens and what he says.

And this "bros before hoes" was not what I meant. People do forget about their friends when they get in a relationship, but I was talking about how people change their lives completly. Lets say you get envolved at age 25. You just completly forget those past 25 years, all the stuff you like. Like, I loved playing basketball, playstation and going out with friends, but now, I got a girlfriend and there is no way I can do those things any more.

[Mr. Chambers]

what ai said and the fact that you can make a life with someone you love. when was the last time you seen a serious movie about someone having a successful life with only a best friend (that wasn't a romantic comedy......). people who put their best friends before bf/gf are usually the ones in the clubs at 47 hitting on 22 year olds and living in a 1 bedroom apartment in Manhattan next to a just as desperate weird chick/guy and the stereotypical "tough guy" who is secretly gay.


just saying......

[Wreck]

how about going the easy route,and get a girlfriend who was a friend of yours before?

Doesn't make any difference at all. I've seen it, trust me.

I agree completely with you OP

I think it can work if you end up getting married, because usually a married couple are best friends, not just lovers.

But I agree besides that, that it usually doesn't work, because imo, say you're really good friends with the girl, not just friends. If you two break up, you usually not just lose a gf, but a good friend, ya know

[Guess_Who]

I think it can work if you end up getting married, because usually a married couple are best friends, not just lovers.

what? O_o . so do you think things change once you are married? No wonder why there are so many divorces.
My couple has to be my friend as well. I can not imagine things differently. Of course is a different friendship to which i have with my friends. And im not married.

[Sam.]