I'm actually falling in love, what do

[PAINKILLƎR]

love is just a chemical by any other name

[CanadaPure]

I like the way your pheromones make me sleepy painus

[PAINKILLƎR]

[CanadaPure]

Don't be a bunch of pussies.

y dont u man up

[Elision]

Don't be a bunch of pussies.

Playing the tough guy...

no there's some major faggotry in this thread

[gutawafang]

Don't be a bunch of pussies.

[gutawafang]

Falling in love then losing it is one of the most human things you could ever experience.

Too human.

[CanadaPure]

Falling in love then losing it is one of the most human things you could ever experience.

Too human.

The fuck does that mean?

I agree with Menzo though. Shit isn't a fairy tale, your feelings are going to get hurt sometimes. Man up, pull up your socks, and deal with it.

[Eedee]

If you're willing to risk the pain that love would cost, then you deserve that love. Take that for whatever you need it to be, Rolly.

[Guess_Who]

When I read the title of this thread I was sure it was another joke........

Don't really know what to tell you, you are very young still, if you really like her go for It. You can end with a broken heart (or not) but at least you tried. Maybe you are idealizing her too. Good luck!!

[Kill You]

Rolly, need more details pl0x.

[Slim Fiasco]

So yo, this yo' boy yung Rolly right here. And Imma be honest, I'm falling in love with this girl. And shes really out of my league. And she lives kinda very far away, but still. I have been talking to her for a while, like.. Almost a year soon, and we have alot of things in common. She even likes football, haha. She's almost my age, just a bit younger (inb4 omg rolly u such a podaphul XD)

I think she likes me back, it looks that way atleast. Shes probably the nicest person I've ever talked to, and its breaking my heart just thinking about not being with her every single day of my life. I would make the sacrifice of moving obviously, which wouldnt really hurt me much. I love how I can actually be open and shit with her, it feels great.

So yeah, how would I approach this without like.. Ruining the friendship? I suck at these things. I'm usually drunk when I say dumb shit to girls, because I'm a faggot and afraid of rejection.

And NO, this is not about Emma Stone. This is the real shit.

"And shes really out of my league" - This is a very bad way of looking at things. And why is she out of your league, because she's more attractive than you? If you go at it like this, you will always feel that you don't deserve her and that you need to do things in order to be at her level or whatever. Which is bullshit because while there may be many more attractive guys or whatever, how many of them share the same feelings for her as you do? How many of them would appreciate her as much as you would? Would you say that the value of that purity is as low as looks or money or something?

Now, the very thing I just said is bullshit as well, but it isn't when we consider the way you approach the situation. So even if we go by "your rules" you still don't have an excuse.

Other thing is, you don't just get to trick a girl into liking you or something, and it's game over. You need to be able to get girls in general. There are tons of them out there but right now you're probably feeling that this one can't be replaced and that she's the special little princess. Fuck that, if you had 5 other girls in rotation, this one wouldn't be so special at all. Now, I'm not saying that there aren't special girls out there, but even though they may be rare for any person, there are still plenty of them too.

You're probably also self-hypnotising yourself and mistaking that ish for "love". You're imaging scenarios with you and this girl, and how awesome it would be, and if only you were with her, you would be soooooo happy, and otherwise you aren't. So it's not really love, but a gateway for positive emotions and she just happens to be the source. You can psych yourself like this for many girls so don't worry.

Anyway, never be ashamed or feel guilty for liking a girl. There's nothing bad about it, in fact that's freaking awesome. If you like her, go for it and at least you'll know that you have tried. And if it doesn't go well with this one, just start hitting girls HARD. The more you do it the better you'll become at it, and you'll see that this one wasn't that special at all.

[Solace]

Agree with Menzo, Elision, CanadaPure. Slim Fiasco dropped some real shit.

Just tell her and ask her out. I'm not saying I'm an expert or my advice is more worth it than others, but how are all people with shitty love experiences the right people to take love advice on? Because the girl they wanted didn't like them back, you're going to repress your feelings and never tell her lmao? Naah.

If you're interested in a girl, you have to find out whether she's interested in you. If she isn't then...to her, you just aren't interesting. And that's not probably not going to change. But you could be to several other girls. And the cycle repeats. If you get hurt, that's okay. It's an important learning experience. Not that love progresses to pain, but rather that love is strong, and now that you know you can handle your emotions better in the future. That was gay, but at least it's not melodramatic and trying to change your life into ridiculous solitude and internal hatred.

[Solace]

Love you Rolly. Go get her. And if not...Then go get another one.

[TonyTilt]

Good luck man!