How much do looks influence your choice in opisiate sex ?

[,-,'-{Bar}-',-,]

i mean for me looks is a big thing but i have seen my self atracted to less pretty girls becuase they have such great personality ect. so for me it is like you need to be decent looking for me to even be intrested after that you need to have a good personality.

whats it like for you ?

[Ethos]

For me, I like a girl that looks good, but not a dumbass. Which is hard to find. But, I dont want an ugly chick so. A somewhat pretty girl that has brains will work.

[$0 R3@L]

I admit to being shallow

but nah looks aint everything,ive dated a few gurls basically because of their personality and i just really enjoyed being in their company.

My head is attracted to the more interlectual gurl,my penis is attracted to the more hotter chicks,blame science

[C-Game]

well if ur doin it for pleasure ... den she doesnt have to be a super model

but if ur serious den looks matter to a certain extent

[Logann]

As you all know I have been with some pretty fly hunnies. But none of them were as nice or good to me as Beth, and she's still beautiful too. So looks can't be all you focus on or you get shit. I figured that out.

[C-Game]

p.s BAR .. get mozilla coz they have a spell checker it would do wonders for u...

opisiate aint even close to opposite ... lol

[Curious]

Hahahahaha, sooo true. They like curves

for real, men can almost always agree on what's hot and what's not. i think that's why men always say "i'd hit it", where as women don't. ladies can easily disagree about a man's looks, because some are into long hair, some like short, some like the preppy look, others like the tough, rough looks, etc. but if you show a picture of a girl wearing a bikini to any man, he's pretty much gonna like it.

I don't quite agree with that, there's not a general female ideal that makes men drool (except the obvious prerequisite of tits, ass n a certain thing btw the legs), i have a bunch of male friends n they can get into heated arguments over what's hot or not, they have totally different preferences - some like blondes, some brunettes or reds, some like skinny n some more curvaceous, some like short n some like tall, some like small boobs n some like big ones, funny thing is most of them have ended up with women who are totally different from what they're dreaming of according to themselves LOL

As for myself, I have to admit that looks do matter somewhat, call me shallow or whatever but i'm to a certain extent controlled by my instincts - we all are, it's just different what those instincts focus on. I don't fall for short guys e.g., n they can't be too much on the heavy side either, n bodybuilders are a major turn off, i prefer slender and athletic - my mind keeps telling me that it doesn't matter, but that's what my instincts are drawn to. Apart from the tall athletic thing the bfs i've had have been totally different - when i was younger i used to fall for pretty boys, now they have to have some kind of edge... Eyes are important, their range of emotions and what they express when they look at me of course - and a guy has to possess a certain intellectual level and a sense of humour, but otherwise I don't care whether he's dark or blond or whatever. Personality can make up for a lot of "defects" when it comes to looks, if you like a person you stop seeing the flaws you think they have, they become unimportant (which is quite lucky for most of us cause otherwise over half of the world's population wouldn't find a partner ) - looks are only the first hand impression, it's what lies beneath the surface that matters if you want a long term deal.

[AspirinE]

hmmm ... i have my ideal woman looking something like...




(which happens to look very alike to 2 of the girls ive had a relationship with )

I believe that you can determine the character of a person to some extent by the appearance. A smile, good gestures, confidence and ofcourse personal taste all reflects on the way a person looks and dresses.

My views changed however..

wen i was like 15-18 .. i thought only about sex appeal now its more of a constructive view that i form at contact.

I still do however scan the bar with men-o-vision when i enter lol.







edit1: bar you have broken the record for horrible spelling, "opisiate" lol.

edit2: ohh and curious, i sense from what you've written you need someone like me ..

call me.

[Big-T]

looks aren't everything i no that now. I used to think they were but now ive liked a few girls for personality reasons, despite their appearance. i used 2 be shallow but i fink ive changed for the better now.

[sinemm]

the way he/she looks of course important to me too..but so personality is..

so i better
good personality with good looking

[*MIRANDA*]

the way sumone looks only draws you in when you see them for the first time
if that person issa complete asshole then
i wont have anything to do with that person
were as meeting a guy that i normally wouldnt go for whos really nice and makes me laugh
and is inteligent and knows his music (this is very importent tome)
then i dont care bout his looks cause i will be drawn and atracted to him
i have a few things like, i could never go for a guy whos shorter then me and
i ussually go for the darker guys, but ive been atracted to others so i guess it can all change
so ma conclusion is that it does influence youre first impression
but its the personality that wins me over in the end
so it aint that importent

[ctodap]

I think looks dont play a big role... its mostly the personality for me.. how much i can connect with her.. nd sooner or later she'll start looking pretty to me.

[Flamez]

the way she looks is important so is personality oh and i don't care if she's the hottest bitch in the world if she don't got humor bye bye bitch *snap* lol

[Flamez]

the way she looks is important so is personality oh and i don't care if she's the hottest bitch in the world if she don't got humor bye bye bitch *snap* lol

ahahah lier

believe it or not it was the truth

[D@vid]

if i'm at a party, i just go for the easiest decent looking bitch i can find. for a relationship i definitely look at looks first, cuz its the first thing u notice. she doesn't have to be the hottest girl, just average. i don't want a hideous looking or slob for a girlfriend. once the looks are good, then personality is most important. she must be outgoing and fun. if she just wants to stay home all day and do nothing, then shes not for me. thats ok sometimes, but i still wanna go out and have fun