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Postby Just Silver » Nov 17th, '09, 22:56

My best friend just got kicked out of his house for the fourth time lol he plans on coming back
but for now he is still kicked out (for not having a job when he turned 18)

So every once in a while he asks if he can come over my house since he has nothing to do

i would say yes but The Moms says "no hes using you for a place to stay"
im like WTF i would ask to if i was in his situation it makes me look like an asshole

Do you think thats using me or what friends should do for one another
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Postby Just Silver » Nov 17th, '09, 23:08

I used to go over his house EVERYDAY so i cant blame him lol
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Postby Just Silver » Nov 18th, '09, 00:19

Menzo wrote:
3m1n3m Silver wrote:I used to go over his house EVERYDAY so i cant blame him lol


Well then you can only repay the favour.

Exactly how i think about it i mean we are supposed to be roommates eventually
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Postby mcZu » Nov 18th, '09, 00:20

Then what's the problem? If you already know that :-k
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Postby AbramIsaac » Nov 18th, '09, 00:22

Your mom kind of sounds like a bitch...
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Postby mcZu » Nov 18th, '09, 00:23

AbramIsaac wrote:Your mom kind of sounds like a bitch...

Hold ya horses cowboy, assuming shit like that with lil' to none evidence to back that shit up aint right. yadamean?
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Postby AbramIsaac » Nov 18th, '09, 00:27

mcZu wrote:
AbramIsaac wrote:Your mom kind of sounds like a bitch...

Hold ya horses cowboy, assuming shit like that with lil' to none evidence to back that shit up aint right. yadamean?

You're right not much evidence to back that up, and it's certainly not a nice thing to say...

However, from his description of the situation, I can't help but come to that conclusion. If he's good friends with this guy, has stayed over at his house a lot, and the guys in a bad spot...well, for his mom to say that the dude's using him, I can't help but see her as a bitch.

I've known plenty of mothers who would've had dude move in, since he got kicked out and all. I know that's too much to expect of everyone, but to say he's a user simply because he needs a place to stay from time to time is a bitchy move (imo).

Don't mean to offend anyone though. Except maybe homeboys mom, maybe she needs offended. :y:
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Postby Le Tunisien » Nov 18th, '09, 00:28

AbramIsaac wrote:Your mom kind of sounds like a bitch...

thats some classless shit to say :n:

and hey 3m1n3m Silver i would say let him stay,damn,put urself at his position
a friend in need is a friend indeed :y: :y: :y:
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Postby mcZu » Nov 18th, '09, 00:29

AbramIsaac wrote:
mcZu wrote:
AbramIsaac wrote:Your mom kind of sounds like a bitch...

Hold ya horses cowboy, assuming shit like that with lil' to none evidence to back that shit up aint right. yadamean?

You're right not much evidence to back that up, and it's certainly not a nice thing to say...

However, from his description of the situation, I can't help but come to that conclusion. If he's good friends with this guy, has stayed over at his house a lot, and the guys in a bad spot...well, for his mom to say that the dude's using him, I can't help but see her as a bitch.

I've known plenty of mothers who would've had dude move in, since he got kicked out and all. I know that's too much to expect of everyone, but to say he's a user simply because he needs a place to stay from time to time is a bitchy move (imo).

Don't mean to offend anyone though. Except maybe homeboys mom, maybe she needs offended. :y:

True, but perhaps she has her reasons. All we know is what Silver told us.
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Postby AbramIsaac » Nov 18th, '09, 00:31

mcZu wrote:True, but perhaps she has her reasons. All we know is what Silver told us.

Yes, you are correct. As I said, I was basing it off of his description. Anyway, it's not that big of a deal, but I am sorry if I offended silver.

Damn, some of you guys must really love your moms... :(
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Postby mcZu » Nov 18th, '09, 00:33

AbramIsaac wrote:Damn, some of you guys must really love your moms... :(

I know I do.
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Postby Le Tunisien » Nov 18th, '09, 00:34

AbramIsaac wrote:
mcZu wrote:True, but perhaps she has her reasons. All we know is what Silver told us.

Yes, you are correct. As I said, I was basing it off of his description. Anyway, it's not that big of a deal, but I am sorry if I offended silver.

Damn, some of you guys must really love your moms... :(

of course we do :b:
and hey ,that aint nice at all to call his mom a bitch, do you want anyone to call your mom a bitch for any reason?? :y: no offense dude
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Postby Just Silver » Nov 18th, '09, 00:35

lol dont worry i call her names all the time but to be funny
shes usually nice i even smoke weed sometimes in my living room
and is overly protective :angry:

shes let him stay over before but that was weeks ago hes been kicked for about a month
hes stubborn and wont make peace with his aunt where he used to live(probably could go back)
he had it made and i live in the ghetto
id kill to live at his house lol
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Postby AbramIsaac » Nov 18th, '09, 00:37

3m1n3m Silver wrote:lol dont worry i call her names all the time but to be funny

shes let him stay over before but that was weeks ago hes been kicked for about a month
hes stubborn and wont make peace with his aunt where he used to live(probably could go back)
he had it made and i live in the ghetto
id kill to live at his house lol

Well in that case, your friend needs to man the fuck up. Your mom no doubt doesn't want him there all the time because you guys probably don't have enough to go around to feed another mouth (living in the ghetto and all) so I retract my statement.

Your friends a bitch though. j/p
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Postby Just Silver » Nov 18th, '09, 00:41

lol i told him to get back hes finally trying his place is an ill as party spot
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