
I had the ability to motivate myself to start lifting on my own, I was tired of being the 5'2" and tiny (like 115-120) ...now I'm a 5'11" at 190. I always liked listening to music, and having time to think for myself, so lifting alone just made sense. However, now that I am almost to where I want to be physically, I am starting to lift with my friends that always showed interest in working out, but never put a foot in the door.
Once I get them to the gym for the first few times, they seem to really enjoy it. After you get the first few sessions out of the way, a lot of the soreness that comes after the workout will decrease, and your body will start to crave the endorphin stimulation. Your mind will crave the image transformation, and basically the shit becomes addicting, fun, and satisfying.
I have had a great experience with weight-lifting thus far, and would be happy to help anyone out if you have any questions or whatever, as I consider myself fairly knowledgeable at this point. Granted, exercise in general isn't an exact science, but I could probably give you a few pointers.
Edit.
Here is a great website with a lot of useful information.
http://www.scoobysworkshop.com/
Also, what do you fellas weigh in at?