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Postby Slimm » Jan 3rd, '07, 03:36

i thought u was pregnant and shit its like once in a while when ur bored u come on sayin u got new problems and shit..
Well if thats not the case than the guy is just idk.joking i guess
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Postby C-Game » Jan 3rd, '07, 07:45

hey miss dre
i think ur guy is lyin
i am in dat exact position of ur guy is .. even though im not livin together with a gal i always make sure da gal im currently with is my world and ill do anythin for her...

so ill say just give it some time

there is a small chance da guy is some one like dfear or steverocks he he who is honest
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Postby Miss Dre » Jan 4th, '07, 17:36

well, we broke up in the first place b'cuz my mom kept on interfereing with us cuz she didn't like him, so he told me that all we had to do to get married was go before a judge after he picked up a marriage license. HE's 23 and im 18. i know that he's kinda quick but i talked to his friend and they said that he was extremely serious about it. he even told his mom about it and let me talked to her ont eh phone. but now it'sh ard to see him cuz my mom said that im not allowed 2 cuz she doesn't like him so...lol, when she goes to work i sneak him in and let him spend the night with me, i know it's not much but it's better than nothing. the erason y he's lvign with someone else ist he fact that he didnt' want to move wiht his mom to another state so he's o his own. well, he was livign iwth this girl and he siad that they're not dating. but here's the thing that i think that he's telign eth truth about: he dosn't hacve a care and whenever he wants to come ove rmy house she drops him off at my house and he calls her wheni ts times to go. he told me "if i was dating her why would she drop me off at your house all the time?" but we broke up cuz of my mom beign nosy, but i know this sounds stupid it's just that i really like him and im tired of going in and out of relatinships and such. and plus, this is the first guy that I actually wanted to cook for instead of jsut throwing a bowl of cereal in his face lol.
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Postby Semper Fidelis » Jan 4th, '07, 18:19

Wow wow, just slow down girl. I don't think it is wise to mary him that soon. I don't know what his side of the story is. Maybe he loves you hell. But just know him better. Be with him, you don't know how he is for real?
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Postby rhiannon » Jan 4th, '07, 18:43

Semper Fidelis wrote:Wow wow, just slow down girl. I don't think it is wise to mary him that soon. I don't know what his side of the story is. Maybe he loves you hell. But just know him better. Be with him, you don't know how he is for real?
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Postby *MIRANDA* » Jan 4th, '07, 20:25

are you seriously 18 ?! :confusion:
im srry but if this story is true then ...like killa said;

Killa wrote:my advice is anyone in this position seeking advice needs mental help .....a 4 year old would know whats up.
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Postby sinemm » Jan 4th, '07, 20:35

well its kinda true..

the people u dont know at all cant change your mind..and you cant (u shouldnt)direct your own life according to ppl's advices..
even me said sth bout this but..i think that actually..
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Postby AspirinE » Jan 4th, '07, 20:50

*MIRANDA* wrote:are you seriously 18 ?! :confusion:
im srry but if this story is true then ...like killa said;

Killa wrote:my advice is anyone in this position seeking advice needs mental help .....a 4 year old would know whats up.



lmao, miss dre was the same girl that months ago posted a thread about being pregnant, then the same person that was in the hospital trying after attempting suicide and her byfriend was posting here lol.
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Postby sinemm » Jan 4th, '07, 20:54

ASP wrote:
*MIRANDA* wrote:are you seriously 18 ?! :confusion:
im srry but if this story is true then ...like killa said;

Killa wrote:my advice is anyone in this position seeking advice needs mental help .....a 4 year old would know whats up.



lmao, miss dre was the same girl that months ago posted a thread about being pregnant, then the same person that was in the hospital trying after attempting suicide and her byfriend was posting here lol.


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Postby *MIRANDA* » Jan 4th, '07, 21:09

ASP wrote:
*MIRANDA* wrote:are you seriously 18 ?! :confusion:
im srry but if this story is true then ...like killa said;

Killa wrote:my advice is anyone in this position seeking advice needs mental help .....a 4 year old would know whats up.



lmao, miss dre was the same girl that months ago posted a thread about being pregnant, then the same person that was in the hospital trying after attempting suicide and her byfriend was posting here lol.


ohhh that was her :crossed:

i feel so bad for her and all the thing that are happening in her life
she is going true so much and... :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: !!!

GET A LIFE !!! ...sad :yawn: !!!
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Postby hotcopper » Jan 5th, '07, 02:03

First, slow down . . . after a lot of trial and error I've learned it's better to get to know someone as a friend before you get involved in an intimate, committed relationship- if the attraction is strong enough and real it'll stand the test of time (I'm not talking about a year or anything but definitely longer than two weeks- as a rule of thumb at least a couple of months)

Secondly, this guy is running a game on you. He's 23 but doesn't have his own car? Does he work? I'm not talking about whether or not he can financially support you- I'm talking about his level of maturity, responsibility, and motivation. Is he there for you besides for sex? Can you reach him anytime you want and need to? Can you talk to him about anything? Does he go out of his way to make you laugh and feel good about yourself?
As far as this female roommate is concerned- she picks him up and drops him off because she knows about you and simply doesn't care. They're involved sexually; either she doesn't really care about him and they just have sex or she's secure enough in her position and in her hold over him that it doesn't matter.
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Postby Miss Dre » Jan 5th, '07, 17:20

He dosn't have a job and he's self employed, he does piercings for a living. and when we broke up he told me that they had sex. And him and that girl picked me up and me and him dropped her off at her job. and when we picked her up she kept on saying that how she told her mom about the pregnancy test and she stated that he told her mom that they would have sex when they got married. So i got pissed off, im in the back of hte car adn i told him just to dro me off anywhere and i texted him on my phone saying "if she's pregnant and/or your getting married to her, don't call me back, i was going to as k you out but this is too confusing." then he text me back and said "f u den" and "your loss not mine" and then he calls me five million times and gets pissed when i dont' pick u the phone. he told me that it was all a joke, they're not getting married and she's not pregnant. I just can't imagine that someone would act like that. When he got kicked out of his house, i went against my mom's rules and let him spend a night, cooked for him and actually tucked him into bed. We fucked 3 or 4 days ago and i hope that scummy bitch doesn't have any diseases, all.

and girl what would you do if hte guy that you dated told hte girl that he's living with mom that i was his sister and shit? HIs name is Mike, he told the girl that he's living with (danielle) mom that i was his sister,...im balck he's white!!! lol. also i brought that up to him im like "why did you tell her mom that?" and he says "you weren't actually suppose to meet her" so i guess that he's higin the fact that we used to date and shit. i should've been a bitch and said to her mom "im not his fucking sister, im his ex girlfriend and by the way, he does have a biiiiig diiiiiick!""....too stressed 2 deal with him. and he gets mad when i accuse him of being wiht that girl.
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Postby yoshi » Jan 5th, '07, 20:39

^ now that's a moving story.
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Postby D@vid » Jan 5th, '07, 20:47

ur only 18.u'll go through a lot of relationships b4 ur married, or u should at least.there is no reason for u to marry him now.just stay away from him now that u've dumped him.hes obviously got some sort of mental problem to keep lying to ppl about u and wanting to marry u.just run, very far.
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Postby yoshi » Jan 5th, '07, 20:55

Killa wrote:
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Sway wrote:i said there's no hope for ya, hang yourself, i've got rope for ya


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