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Re: Break ups...

Postby sinemm » Aug 10th, '07, 11:50

you cant make it too general..like "guy take it harder than girls" or "girls take it harder than guys"..

cuz that depends on the personality they have..some can take it over easily..but some cant..if they're too emotional..or too stuck to that person they broke up with..or if they loved them so much..deep and real..some people dont take relationships serious..some have gf's bf's just to be able to say "yeah i got a girl" or i "got a boy" (thats so stupid)..so that'd be easy to forget bout it for them

since now i dint have a so hard break-up
cuz i once ever fell in love w/some1..but i wasnt w/him..thats the good side of that maybe cuz if i broke up w/some1 i truly love it'd be harder than everything..
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Re: Break ups...

Postby joelle » Aug 10th, '07, 19:29

AspirinE wrote:On the topic of attitude. I seriously doubt any person can break up with someone who they had "feelings for" would really mean "pussy is pussy". That only happens if the only reason u date someone is is to get some.

But the question wasn't about break-ups when "feelings" were involved. It's about breakups in general.
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Re: Break ups...

Postby AspirinE » Aug 10th, '07, 20:43

joelle wrote:
AspirinE wrote:On the topic of attitude. I seriously doubt any person can break up with someone who they had "feelings for" would really mean "pussy is pussy". That only happens if the only reason u date someone is is to get some.

But the question wasn't about break-ups when "feelings" were involved. It's about breakups in general.



What kind of breakup is it when feelings aren't involved? If you are breaking up with someone its a relationship, otherwise its "first sex/high school drama" were just because u fuck someone and you think they belong to you. :laughing: . Thats not even relationships, nothing to be "broken up" over, just untill dumb little kids finish highschool they wont know the difference between "fuck buddy" and "girlfriend/boyfriend".
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Re: Break ups...

Postby James R. » Aug 10th, '07, 22:19

AspirinE wrote:What kind of breakup is it when feelings aren't involved?

Any "relationship" that involves a gold digger who finds a richer guy and leaves the other one in the cold with no remorse. Even if the relationship is a joke, if one of the people thinks it's real then the break will be just as real.
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Re: Break ups...

Postby AspirinE » Aug 10th, '07, 22:52

Any "relationship" that involves a gold digger who finds a richer guy and leaves the other one in the cold with no remorse.


As they say if in a relationship one person doesnt love or even like another the one who isnt liked is the whore. Goldgiigers are abd case of "relationships"
Even if the relationship is a joke, if one of the people thinks it's real then the break will be just as real


Well thats why im saying, people gotta see those kind of differences.
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Re: Break ups...

Postby James R. » Aug 11th, '07, 06:57

Ok I'm with you now
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Re: Break ups...

Postby C-Game » Aug 11th, '07, 07:02

Oki ASP this is for u...

how can u explain a situation like this...

da guy thinks its serious.. but da gal aint serious.. but she puts out easily.. so da guy gets some.. and in reality da gal aint after da cash ,, only after the fame...
my point is .. do u think da guy should break up or not..
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Re: Break ups...

Postby James R. » Aug 11th, '07, 07:15

I know you said it's for Asp, but I'll take a swing at it.

It would depend on what he wanted out of the relationship. If all he wanted was sex then it wouldn't really matter, but if he wanted something more than that then he should break up with her. The only issue is since he's serious and thinks she's serious he doesn't really have a way of finding out that she's not being authentic which makes it hard to say what choice he should make.
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Re: Break ups...

Postby C-Game » Aug 11th, '07, 07:23

James R. wrote:I know you said it's for Asp, but I'll take a swing at it.

It would depend on what he wanted out of the relationship. If all he wanted was sex then it wouldn't really matter, but if he wanted something more than that then he should break up with her. The only issue is since he's serious and thinks she's serious he doesn't really have a way of finding out that she's not being authentic which makes it hard to say what choice he should make.



well first he was for da sex... den it felt real.... oh its fucked up..
there was like no comunication for about 3 months.. now its startin again..
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Re: Break ups...

Postby AspirinE » Aug 11th, '07, 13:18

C-Game wrote:Oki ASP this is for u...

how can u explain a situation like this...

da guy thinks its serious.. but da gal aint serious.. but she puts out easily.. so da guy gets some.. and in reality da gal aint after da cash ,, only after the fame...
my point is .. do u think da guy should break up or not..


Break up from what? Sex doesnt put you in handcuffs, slaving u to the woman. Its just simply foolish to consider someone u only want sex with to be in a "relationship" with u.

Girls are lightheaded for getting caught into this selfishness dudes have, but i believe if u a real man ull at least make it clear that ur with her "just for the pussy".... otherwise its just childish, a little more maturity in such conduct can save a lot of people extra nerve cells.
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Re: Break ups...

Postby sinemm » Aug 11th, '07, 14:49

C-Game wrote:Oki ASP this is for u...

how can u explain a situation like this...

da guy thinks its serious.. but da gal aint serious.. but she puts out easily.. so da guy gets some.. and in reality da gal aint after da cash ,, only after the fame...
my point is .. do u think da guy should break up or not..


is it your story?
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