you cant make it too general..like "guy take it harder than girls" or "girls take it harder than guys"..
cuz that depends on the personality they have..some can take it over easily..but some cant..if they're too emotional..or too stuck to that person they broke up with..or if they loved them so much..deep and real..some people dont take relationships serious..some have gf's bf's just to be able to say "yeah i got a girl" or i "got a boy" (thats so stupid)..so that'd be easy to forget bout it for them
since now i dint have a so hard break-up
cuz i once ever fell in love w/some1..but i wasnt w/him..thats the good side of that maybe cuz if i broke up w/some1 i truly love it'd be harder than everything..