what do u guys think of gay marriage?

by **Jesse** » Mar 2nd, '05, 21:56

(im not gay)

i myself think, why the fuck does it matter what gay people do? is it gonna affect anyone? no...so then they should just legalize gay marriage everywere..

anyone who believes god(if u believe in god)
would put homosexuals on the earth, then say gays are wrong
is stupid in the head

and for those who believe marriage is a sacred thing, WHO CARES?..its not like "god" is going to smite the earth at the sight of 2 guys or women kissing in front of a priest
ok, sure, its pretty nasty..butt sex, but damn, who cares what they do in the privacy of there home, it ain't gonna affect us...

I could go on aboult this shit, and this doesnt even piss me off half as mutch as the banning of pitbulls in some cities does...

ANYWAYS, what do u guys think, i can see why people dont like gays or w/e but whats letting them marry gonna do?
what do u guys think , do u think they should marry, or not..

by **yoshi** » Mar 2nd, '05, 22:12

honestly, i don't mind what they do.. if they want to, i don't see no problem.. i don't understand, why some people make so much hype.. if they want to get married, that's their businness, they ain't do anything bad - normally, when people are in love, they get married, so why gays couldn't do it?..

in fact, i agree with Jesse

by **Jesse** » Mar 2nd, '05, 22:25

by **Shaz** » Mar 7th, '05, 23:41

Homosexuality is a really controversial topic, and personally, I dont like the idea. Alot of people nowadays have adopted the 'mind your own business' & 'dont intervene if it doesnt effect you' attitude, and to an extent, so have I, as it doesnt really effect me in anyway. BUT I do believe that God intended marriage to be unification of man and woman, to continue the growth of humans as a race. Where you say that perhaps God placed homosexuals on earth, you're mistaken. Homosexuality is enviromentally induced, from your brought up to your social success and personal preference. Of course God created men and women, but he also gave them the freedom to choose their own paths...

As for your question of what may happen by allowing Gays to marry? Say two women have a child via IVF treatment, or from a sperm donor, imagine the child growing up in a women only enviroment, and say he's a boy. Obviously he's going to be very 'girly' as there is no male influence, he is going to be picked on at school i.e. 'ha ha your mum is a lesbian' (the current standard of tolerance and respect in teens/kids is at an all time low) and theres a high probability of him being bullied throughout his school years. I think i can leave the rest to you to imagine; his outcome etc.
Lets not forget, say you got the gym; Theres alot of gay men there and as your working out they happen to be checking you out... I dont know about you but i would find that highly uncomfortable.

Also, dont forget that sex is a big factor in the controversy, as many people (including me) find that idea disgusting, then again, what they do in the bedroom is their business.

Even though these are my opinions, I'd like to hear what others think...

by **Karl** » Mar 8th, '05, 01:35

I am 100% in support for gay marriage, banning it i find pathetic and extremely unfair.

You dont chose who you are attracted to, you cant chose who you are, what colour skin you have, what colour eyes you have so why should your life be limited because of it, its discrimination to a huge degree.

When coloured people were banned from using certain sides of the roads or doing certain activities all those decades ago, people were sickened, commented on the level of discrimination and said how these people were being treated badly because of what they are, and protested it and it was stopped mostly, this is how gay discriminaion is, people being treated differently because of the way they are, its sickening to see it happen.

If two members of the same gender happen to love eachother and want to commit to eachother then why shouldn't they be given the option, the right, to do so ? Straight people do afterall, the only difference is the gender and they can't help that.

I feel most people are against same sex marriages and couples is due to the fact they are uncomfortable around them, but why should they be ? If your uncomfortable around them it leads to the impression you may feel they will come onto you, but is that not just you being up yourself and a strong case of self flattery, thinking every gay male or female is so desperate to go for every person of the same sex they see, just think, do you fancy every person of the opposite sex you see ? No, its the same concept.

People against gay marriages are commonly homophobic, but what is a homophobic ?

Homo-Phobic
Phobic = Phobia = Fear of
Homo = Homosexual = Gay
Homophobic = Fear of gays

In my opinion those that can't accept gay couples are closed minded / arragant, or just playing up to the opinion, based on pressure, society or upbringing, but none of them are valid excuses in my opinion.

Another common arguement for gay marriage is the fact of children, why should gays be allowed to marry, to be a family, if they can't have children, that, after religion, is probably the worst arguement against it i have ever heard in my life, not every couple has children, and gay couples can still bring up kids, but that can be seen as unacceptable because of the "stick" kids would get at school over it, but it can also be seen as perfectly ok because at the end of the day it comes down to opinions of people who think they know whats right, but if a father has kids, then admits to himself he is living a lie and is gay, and has a relationship with another man, does that wipe out all love he has for his child ? does it make it wrong for that child to still be with his father or chose to live with him ? No of course not, i'm sure this has happened in many cases around the world and im sure the child is shown just as much love.

Another arguement commonly used is another "low" one in my view, the way its worded, marriage, and its meaning, i quote the dictionary (low) :

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