Break ups...

[C-Game]

Anyone here on TR ever had a hard break up..

so the question is...

who do u think most suffer the ending of a serious relationship

i think the guy takes it harder than gal

XT just broke up with a gal which was about a 6 year run...
i cant judge her side but XT was down as hell.. he couldnt sleep and still cant..

Dfear also had a huge break up and he couldnt take it as well
but da gal was kool and just got over it..

any opinions, any real life experiences, am i wrong / right....

i have never experienced a serious break up so i dont know da feeling

[James R.]

It all depends on who was feeling the relationship more. If the girl was through and ready to be done then no she wouldn't be all hurt. I broke up with my gf of 15months and she tried to use sex to get over it and got knocked up so I think she's takin it harder than I am. But i know plenty of guys that break up with their gf's and move on within a two days.

[C-Game]

^
ye u have a point...

but da issue is we are more sensitive dan gals.. and thats y "some" guys take it real hard

there are cases of suicide here in SL ...

[James R.]

Yeah guys can be pretty sensitive even though they try to hide it.

[ctodap]

wun time i didn't want to be the wun who broke up with the gurl so i acted like an arrogant bastard

[AspirinE]

I had an epical break up with my ex-gf last year, coz the dumb bitch couldnt keep my personal life a secret. I can take anything but cheating and someone disrespecting the fact u share something very private with them.

Now we live close to each other and hang out in the same area on the weekends(too small of an island to hide from each other) and now its like a cold war every time i see that dumb bitch. I forgave her and all and i said ok cool, lets be friends, but then she started talking shit to me and stuff every time i see her and i didn't really deserve it.. I can't stress how hilarious the showdowns are now when i see her with her retarded ass friends, she cracks some dipshit remark and her fat ass friend wearing a mask of make-up giggles like she's ever even had a boyfriend or would get some of my dick, (If i had the balls just 100 grams heavier and alibi made of steel i would knock that hoe into oblivion).

I think people should really be happy if they are in a long lasting meaningfull relationship, may we all be so lucky (im not, mine don't last long but im also not gonna give stale relationships last too long, to waste my time so to speak)

[°[~CHR!$~]°]

Girl cheated on me...we had a relationship fo two years...i dont know how i felt...it was like "argh screw it, it happened" but otherwise i couldnt think of gettin a relationship so fast(guess i didnt want to get hurt again)...still have no relationship..needed a break of girls and this relationship thing....girls are just my friends at the moment ...

[Shadyluva]

i just broke up with my boyfriend...we were 2gether for a year and about 2 monthss

it frickin sukedd
i still havent qot over it
i still remember him
and i still find myself thinking about himm

to me....its harder on the girl...most girlss are more sensitive den the guyss...like me for one...but um yea...breakups fukin suckk...and i hate them =X

[Tash8]

well ahh fuck it, fuck bitches

[$0 R3@L]

relationships are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy overrated to be honest,they take so much time and work,it becomes more of a chore to maintain a healthy relationship.Just enjoy life and catch some std's along the way

[Slimm]

I had an epical break up with my ex-gf last year, coz the dumb bitch couldnt keep my personal life a secret. I can take anything but cheating and someone disrespecting the fact u share something very private with them.

Now we live close to each other and hang out in the same area on the weekends(too small of an island to hide from each other) and now its like a cold war every time i see that dumb bitch. I forgave her and all and i said ok cool, lets be friends, but then she started talking shit to me and stuff every time i see her and i didn't really deserve it.. I can't stress how hilarious the showdowns are now when i see her with her retarded ass friends, she cracks some dipshit remark and her fat ass friend wearing a mask of make-up giggles like she's ever even had a boyfriend or would get some of my dick, (If i had the balls just 100 grams heavier and alibi made of steel i would knock that hoe into oblivion).

I think people should really be happy if they are in a long lasting meaningfull relationship, may we all be so lucky (im not, mine don't last long but im also not gonna give stale relationships last too long, to waste my time so to speak)

shorty..
you are too fine to be dealing with that bullshit.

i was just wondering where u went

[AspirinE]

shorty..
you are too fine to be dealing with that bullshit.

I'm on the market, for half the price, 3 months fresh. Take it while its rebound

[B.A.D.]

I broke up wit my girl a year ago... this day a year ago lol

I wanted to kill myself lol

and now I'm fucked up by another girl I love, she went out with me and shit but now I don't understand whats going on... what did I do or what happenend but things are getting heavy to me these days

[joelle]

It completely depends. I know some guys who break up with the attitude of "pussy is pussy." Like James said, it's whoever's more into the relationship/the other person..which probably is whoever tries harder to make it work.

[AspirinE]

On the topic of attitude. I seriously doubt any person can break up with someone who they had "feelings for" would really mean "pussy is pussy". That only happens if the only reason u date someone is is to get some.