Relationships

[Low Key]

i present you the question;

"in your teenage years, are relationships good or bad?"

i've seen many a relationship fail with my own eyes, but i've also seen relationships blossom. i've been in a few and i can safely say that none of them ended happily. but that doesn't mean i regret them. "being in love is like being on the highway to a broken heart, but it's worth the ride" the pain you have to deal with in relationships can be extreme, your emotions are blown, hot and cold. you feel jealousy, anger, sadness and loneliness a lot more and you become very vulnerable. but at the same time, during the good times of a relationship, nothing can feel better.

there are pro's and cons to having relationships at an early age. some say sticking with one girl/boy is bad and you should get as much experience as you can before you get tied down. some say that finding the 'one' can happen at any time, so if you find him/her at an early age, then that's that.

personally, i think relationships at a young age hardly EVER last, and most people just do it for experience, or peer pressure. one thing i can't stand though, is 13 or 14 year olds telling each other that they 'love' each other. that's so stupid, it's unreal.

but for my conclusion, i think relationships are good. at least you learn from mistakes and gain experience that may become handy in the future.

[Emadyville]

I think for the most part no, because being too immature causes shit to happen that usually fucks people up in regards to relationships for awhile. This is the time where you're shaping who you're gunna be, and shit like this often leads to more negative then positives. And how many relationships ever last into a year after high school, prolly like .05%

[Low Key]

I think for the most part no, because being too immature causes shit to happen that usually fucks people up in regards to relationships for awhile. This is the time where you're shaping who you're gunna be, and shit like this often leads to more negative then positives. And how many relationships ever last into a year after high school, prolly like .05%

i suppose. plus when you're young you wanna live your life. and not be tied down. you could say that relationships are a waste of your youth?

[Emadyville]

No, they have positives, but it also seems like, well at least in the 4 years I've been outta high school, every girl is a slut in high school, it's kinda sad. I feel like relationships are just to give you a reason to fuck someone and not have make you out to be a slut to be honest.

[Low Key]

No, they have positives, but it also seems like, well at least in the 4 years I've been outta high school, every girl is a slut in high school, it's kinda sad. I feel like relationships are just to give you a reason to fuck someone and not have make you out to be a slut to be honest.

lol hmmmm. i hate sluts.

[embm]

yea usly yung pple in relationships dnt last

[Dark Blue]

but for my conclusion, i think relationships are good. at least you learn from mistakes and gain experience that may become handy in the future.

yeah u said it

ive been with my gf now for almost a year and even tho we had 48573456894 fights were still goin lol

[lifeadeath]

is 13 or 14 year olds telling each other that they 'love' each other. that's so stupid, it's unreal.

This can't be more real, as I'm working in this junior high-school, I see this happen all the time. One 15 year old girl there is in a relationship with a 18 year old guy and after they were together 5 months, they got engaged, so I got one question, what the fuck? Could this be more stupid or what, how the hell anyone could know in that age that they want to spend the life with that person after 5 months, that's just stupid.

[Mr. Chambers]

everyone sit down its storytime....

from a young age till 17ish...i spent it being possibly the biggest dick in the world to any woman who would be stupid enough to consider myself their "boyfriend"....really kept me from feeling ANY attachment to them...while also saving me much pain and depression...and yea...alot of my relationships ended with them either ending it with me...or them cheating....most of the time them thinking it'd touch me...but being that i didn't care...it was like shooting @ someone who is behind bullet proof glass...you see it coming but it can't scratch you....and of course i've had problems with woman.....arguments, getting played the whole 9......not to mention i spent about 5 years chasing a girl who i actually rejected first.....and at 17 my longest relationship had been 6 months..lulz...and it was long distance so i barely had to see the bitch....then i met some through a neutral friend....and i put some more effort into it..cuz i felt we coulda worked...she was about 40 minutes away..so one could call it "long distance"....met her..and thought she was cool...then you know....you start seeing a person more for what they are...we both agree'd we'd talk about "us" when we first met..and the first time came and went...met a second time....came and went...so i figured we just had a nuetral agreement...ask her to my prom..and we go...and nothing happens...and i don't mean..nothing..i mean nothing...we talked the whole time..and she chooses my prom...MY prom to tell me she's had 2 miscarriages...and in my mind...i'm like fuck what a hoe....she's only 17....tells me she used to cut..uses sex to fix arguments..and i was like fuck..if she needs to "Fix" anything that way then i don't wanna be broken in...but i still put my time and effort into it...a WEEK later...a guy messages me and tells me to back off she's his g/f...i was like...oh ok...we'll see....i go to a party of hers....see him outside.....BLAM!...punched that dude right in the face...as he stumbles backwards i tell him "she's all yours...ask her about her miscarriages and her past b4 you try to defend her next time....".....

whats the point tom?
it seems the ones i put the most effort into just misused it and hurt me...but the ones i didn't put into any effort in just didn't have anything.....but even the ones i tried...was missing something...
point is...i'm now in my longest relationship...with a very beautiful lady that i'd do anything for....and it just came natural....i mean we have our fights once and a while but even then...even during fighting and everything..i still love her...but i don't think i coulda got to deciding all this if it wasn't for my past mistakes and experience......

[Solace]

is 13 or 14 year olds telling each other that they 'love' each other. that's so stupid, it's unreal.

This can't be more real, as I'm working in this junior high-school, I see this happen all the time. One 15 year old girl there is in a relationship with a 18 year old guy and after they were together 5 months, they got engaged, so I got one question, what the fuck? Could this be more stupid or what, how the hell anyone could know in that age that they want to spend the life with that person after 5 months, that's just stupid.

Lmfao the fuck? Wow. And yeah, you all know my age and I'll agree I get extremely annoyed at people saying "Oh I love you " and then it's just a little crush that fades in a motherfucking week or so. But I do think that relationships at younger ages (>20) would help you with the future i guess..

Awesome story Chambers. Mad lols@"she's all yours...ask her about her miscarriages and her past b4 you try to defend her next time"

[Raquel]

I think they're good maybe most of them are just unreal, like they dont really love eachother, theyre just teenagers..
but ive known some teen couples that has been together for 3 years now, since they were 13/14 years old.
You learn with that relationships

[Emadyville]

Damn chambers that was pretty damn good, would make a good movie script