BizarreKId wrote:okay okay im feeling better already, how about eye contact.. where should i look and do i shake her hand when i introduce myself... or should i suprise her and sit at her lunchtable with my friend? thanks
Eye contact is key, look into her eyes like your hanging on every word she is sayin and you want to hear more..dont have a blank or boring look on your face or she will think you dont care about what shes sayin..
Dont shake her hand, no, save that for her brother or dad..shaking hands is a male to male thing (pause)..
And if you want to break the ice, give her a compliment but dont compliment overused body features..dont mention her ass, tits, or anything that can be perceived as sexual..compliment her eyes, hair or the way she carries herself..girls eat that shit up..
Humor can be helpful too, but dont over do it..this isnt a stand up act..a couple well placed jokes can go a long way..if your in school, make a simple crack on something the pricipal did or said but dont make it an insult just a funny observation..once you get her to giggle or laugh then you can get down to business..
Ask her questions, dont talk about yourself unless she asked you to..you want to get to know her not the other way around..once you figure out her interests then you can find something in common, something you both like, then talk about that..for instance if you both like, lets say Eminem..ask her what her favorite songs are and just let her do all the talking..girl love to talk about stuff that they like and they will talk your ear off, but remember, dont space out..look like you are eager to hear what she has to say, even if its boring you to death..
Also DO NOT bring your friend with you..that shows lack of confidence, a friend or "wingman" is used for pickin up bitches at the club for one night stands..you want this conversation to be a one-on-one thing..
