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Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby BILI » Nov 8th, '10, 00:23

^^you can find bad stuff about everyone.Most of the people who first sign up are either stans or close to being one.But luckily most people change,well some actually dont :coffee: :whistle:
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby classthe_king » Nov 8th, '10, 00:45

BILI wrote:^^you can find bad stuff about everyone.Most of the people who first sign up are either stans or close to being one.But luckily most people change,well some actually dont :coffee: :whistle:


That's actually true lol. It's ironic that joining an Eminem fanwebsite destans you
You think your personal attacks make up for what you lack?
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby BILI » Nov 8th, '10, 00:49

Word man,word :y:
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Manny_Boi » Nov 8th, '10, 01:02

You're also a stan when you're worried about him beating pop artists like Lady Gaga in first week sales. What happened to just paying attention to his music? Why do you people give a shit about how much he sells? How does that affect you? You're not going to get any of his fucking money.... Oh well what do I know I'm a stan by default for posting on this site :laughing:
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby BoomZigga » Nov 8th, '10, 01:09

EminemBase wrote:
Audi wrote:So using your logic nobody is a Stan unless they write Em letters, dye their hair, slit their girlfriends throat, AND drive off a bridge?


No, that wasn't my logic.

My logic wasn't that nobody is a Stan unless they literally mirror his every action.

My logic was that unless you resemble the KEY features which separate FAN from STAN, which are the point of the entire song, then you are not a Stan.

Eminem wasn't saying anybody who knows all of his songs is a Stan, or that anybody who fucking likes him is a Stan lmao. I could just as easily say "using your logic anybody who loves Eminem's music is a Stan"? Both extremes are retarded.

Point is, unless you follow and love Eminem for reasons other than his art. You can't be a Stan. You can't claim somebody is a Stan just because they like his music.

Or even love and follow his music. That is totally normal and healthy and millions of people do it with Eminem and MANY others. And not just music artists, also authors and film-makers, that doesn't make you a Stan, that's being a FAAAAANNNNN.

It has to be unhealthy and abnormal to be classed as Stan, otherwise, how do you claim it's outside of the 'fan' definition? If all you're doing is following and discussing Eminem's music, then you are a fan. Not a Stan.

Ummm....
I saw some of your YouTube videos and you had your hair dyed blonde and styled just like Eminem's... :coffee:
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby embm » Nov 8th, '10, 01:15

fuck every1 else
dnt giv a shit abt wat they say :whistle:

@ lest im not a beiber fan lol now tats shameful :p
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby EminemBase » Nov 8th, '10, 01:53

BoomZigga wrote:
EminemBase wrote:
Audi wrote:So using your logic nobody is a Stan unless they write Em letters, dye their hair, slit their girlfriends throat, AND drive off a bridge?


No, that wasn't my logic.

My logic wasn't that nobody is a Stan unless they literally mirror his every action.

My logic was that unless you resemble the KEY features which separate FAN from STAN, which are the point of the entire song, then you are not a Stan.

Eminem wasn't saying anybody who knows all of his songs is a Stan, or that anybody who fucking likes him is a Stan lmao. I could just as easily say "using your logic anybody who loves Eminem's music is a Stan"? Both extremes are retarded.

Point is, unless you follow and love Eminem for reasons other than his art. You can't be a Stan. You can't claim somebody is a Stan just because they like his music.

Or even love and follow his music. That is totally normal and healthy and millions of people do it with Eminem and MANY others. And not just music artists, also authors and film-makers, that doesn't make you a Stan, that's being a FAAAAANNNNN.

It has to be unhealthy and abnormal to be classed as Stan, otherwise, how do you claim it's outside of the 'fan' definition? If all you're doing is following and discussing Eminem's music, then you are a fan. Not a Stan.

Ummm....
I saw some of your YouTube videos and you had your hair dyed blonde and styled just like Eminem's... :coffee:


It wasn't died like Eminem's.

He didn't invent dying your hair. Many people did it before and after (unrelated) to him you know lmao. At that time, I was living in a shared student house and had somewhat of a psycho-friend, 37 - And we both died our hair for a laugh - Nothing to do with Eminem. I was also doing a lot of acid at the time, so it fit in with how I was feeling - Zany etc.

I was also... 18, at that time Eminem hadn't even begun his comeback and I wasn't listening to his music as I was living in a shitty attic room with no media or anything. If I was going to dye my hair like Eminem, don't you think it would be when I was 10, in the year 2000 lmao. Not 8 years later.
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby EminemBase » Nov 8th, '10, 01:56

Menzo wrote:
EminemBase wrote:You're a Stan if - You not only listen to Eminem's music but you...
1. Follow and care deeply about his personal issues.
2. Defend him no matter what and delude yourself into liking everything.
3. Dress, talk and try to be like Eminem.
4. Try to get on contact with Eminem.


Well, I don't fully agree with number 2. I mean...if it's illogical defending like, "Eminem had one of his best verses on Touchdown" or some shit like that, then yeah I agree. But for the most part, I usually defend Eminem and his work whenever a debate ensues.

Granted, I never start those debates, it's only when people say how Eminem is 'shit' for reasons like his skin colour...


I didn't mean to defend him in a logical debate. If somebody says "Eminem is only big because he's white", doesn't make you a Stan to defend him lmao. Because you're arguing on the side of rationality, not for the sake of Eminem, in all actuality.

What I mean is, even if you see somebody's point in a criticism about him / an aspect, or feel you dislike something he's done yet still defend it in a positive way, that.
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Mahmoud48 » Nov 8th, '10, 02:16

im not ashamed to be anything
stan or not idc :smoking:
ODD FUTURE ASAP OVOXO BLACK HIPPY GOOD MUSIC
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Just Silver » Nov 8th, '10, 04:17

i wouldn't say ashamed but it's a little awkward
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby DarkSideOfEm » Nov 8th, '10, 06:30

i just don't give a fuck!
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Fleka » Nov 8th, '10, 08:08

Manny_Boi wrote:You're also a stan when you're worried about him beating pop artists like Lady Gaga in first week sales. What happened to just paying attention to his music? Why do you people give a shit about how much he sells? How does that affect you? You're not going to get any of his fucking money.... Oh well what do I know I'm a stan by default for posting on this site :laughing:


This. :y:

And, I agree with Eminembase. Stans are obsessed with Eminem as a person, and his private life. That goes beyond his music.
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Raids-God » Nov 8th, '10, 09:19

Audi wrote:I don't like to tell my friends or people I talk about hip hop with. It's pretty much instant disregard of my opinion if I say he's my favorite because any white kid is going to love Eminem even if they don't know shit about rap. With my friends I just don't want them to know I've belonged to Em forums. Kinda gay.

What about you?


Damm your avatars sick :worship:
and yh im a Internet solider more than a stan tbh.
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby xxTrigger1989xx » Nov 8th, '10, 14:46

I don't really like to talk about hip hop to all of my friends either. They're all metal heads anyway, which is fine by me, I like other music than just rap. They used to hate Eminem, but now they don't have a problem with him, as long as I don't play him everytime. The one that hated him the most told me back when Relapse was still fresh that Eminem was really dope and real, but he just didn't like his voice (especially the accents, he despised 'em lol) and his image, I guess that's what you could say. But he likes the Recovery shit, which is ironic :y:

Anyway, I don't really consider myself an actual REAL Stan. Like the one in the song "Stan", I am nothing like that. I listen to Eminem more than I listen to anyone else, he's my favorite rapper and artist, but I'm not in love with him like "Stan" was. If I met Em, I'd chill with him and shit and be cool, I wouldn't be all "OMG EMINEMZ LULZ OMFG". But I mean, I'm still kind of a Stan, I like generally his whole catalogue, even like half of Encore I can find myself to enjoy :p
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Re: Are You Ashamed To Be A Stan?

Postby Alaine » Nov 8th, '10, 15:01

I bet Em has lots of closet fans outside that never admitted to liking him because he's labeled as vulgar, homophobic, misogynist... but still listening to his music as "guilty pleasure"
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