Man I think I'm going crazy.

[Blu]

The one thing I hate about myself is falling for girls soooo easily and sooo hard. Even if we've been talking for a couple weeks I'll fall DEEP for her. I just don't know what to fucking do. This is why I partially feel like I shouldn't take relationships too serious but then again I can't help it.

Man I'm such a wreckkkkkk

[LIL_B]

same damn thing as me.fall in love da first night boi tbh
they love the D tho

[Block]

Having been in and out of numerous 1 year + relationships, my best advice for not falling for a girl is to treat her like a dude. Sounds weird on paper, but it works. Even if you end up sleeping with her and shit, don't look at her like she's anything more than a guy friend (with tits and a wet spot, of course). And occupy your free time with other shit when you're not with her. Anything you can get your hands on, do it. It will prevent you from constantly thinking about her, which will prevent you from falling too hard.

Really though, nothing anyone can say will help you. It take a LOT of breaking up to be able to keep your distance in relationships.

[rapmob]

lol you just wont pussy man

[LIL_B]

where u at Blu

@Block nice post btw

[Blu]

Having been in and out of numerous 1 year + relationships, my best advice for not falling for a girl is to treat her like a dude. Sounds weird on paper, but it works. Even if you end up sleeping with her and shit, don't look at her like she's anything more than a guy friend (with tits and a wet spot, of course). And occupy your free time with other shit when you're not with her. Anything you can get your hands on, do it. It will prevent you from constantly thinking about her, which will prevent you from falling too hard.

Really though, nothing anyone can say will help you. It take a LOT of breaking up to be able to keep your distance in relationships.

Thanks for the advice man, really needed it.

Ps, Big M's sig .gif's piss me the fuck off, dunno why.

Agreed lol.

[LIL_B]

fuck u

[SliK]

The trick is to have more than one going at a time, you'd be surprised how little you care if you have a backup.

[Amaranthine]

The trick is to have more than one going at a time, you'd be surprised how little you care if you have a backup.

That is a terrible idea.

[Slim Fiasco]

Just don't put them above you man, in no fucking way possible. Men tend to value the women they like because of their beauty (in your eyes, it doesn't matter how other people perceive her) more than they deserve too. Or to phrase it better and in a less shallow manner, when you like a girl you get addicted to the way she makes you feel and that (even though wonderful) feeling can cloud your judgment. You can't really choose who to like and when to like them, so you shouldn't worry about the things you can't control and again, there's a lot of good about infatuation so it's not really a bad thing unless you let the (possible) negative aspects to consume you. Like, if she doesn't like you back, or doesn't like you as much and stuff. And to return to my first point, please don't put yourself below her and try to do things you don't feel like doing in order to satisfy her needs. She's not better than you so never get pathetic about it.

[EG.]

Always keep in mind that your life is about YOU. You are the center, nobody else is. Because in the end, yourself is all you have.

[Slim Fiasco]

Always keep in mind that your life is about YOU. You are the center, nobody else is. Because in the end, yourself is all you have.

[Blu]

*sniff* y'all so supportive :') thanks everybody.

[SliK]

The trick is to have more than one going at a time, you'd be surprised how little you care if you have a backup.

That is a terrible idea.

Explain how it's terrible (assuming the two never find out.. but if you date girls from the same cirlce of friends you're a moron anyway).

[Blu]

I already had a thing with a girl who was dating... I'm not going down that same path haha.