Eedee wrote:AbramIsaac wrote:In all honesty, letting her know is only good in this situation.
You've got a crazy bitch. Normally, even if you fucked her, it wouldn't matter in terms of whether or not you told the wife...except from your ethical perspective, of course. Telling the wife now isn't an issue of honesty, it's a matter of covering your ass. And being honest. Whatever.
The point is that this crazy bitch will keep coming back. There's a chance she'll deliberately tell your wife, just to put you in a bad way. Hell hath no fury and all that. The fact that she's pursuing you so stubbornly is proof she's crazy. Crazy bitches do crazy things.
I read it as the OP got kissed unexpectedly, not that he did it willingly. If he did it willingly, holy shit, he's in hot water. Otherwise just tell the wife exactly what happened and tell her the 100% truth. More likely than not, the wife won't get upset.
The idea is that it's harder to believe that it was unwilling the longer he delays it.
Regardless of whether or not he did anything at all, crazy bitches lie. Crazy bitches that kiss men they know are married aren't exactly shining examples of ethical fortitude.