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Choice A or Choice B

Postby Atone » Dec 6th, '12, 07:42

here's the situation, a few years ago i had a choice between 2 girls


Girl A: I met when i was 13, we dated but were broken up cuz my parents chose to move to Iowa, 10 years later, we moved back here to Florida, coincadentally, this girl lived 5 blocks away.

Girl B: we knew each other when we were in diapers, our parents knew each other for years before we were even born. growing up we both had alot of feelings for each other, but, our parents got in a fight over money and stopped talking, years went by, in 2010 they started talking again, i found her on facebook, got to talking, we realized we both had feleings and what not, after awhile those feelings came back. knowing my parents planned on moving back to florida, we planned on dating once i got back.

Now, fast forward to me moving to Florida.

Girl A: Tell's me she's single, and wants to be with me, tho, me and Girl B already made plan's, so i tell her now is not the right time for me to get in a relationship, cuz i wanted to wait to see how me and the other girl would work.

Girl B: lives 30 miles away, and doesn't talk to me as much as we used to, one day we all visit each other, but she barley makes convo with me, i felt as if she was a totally different person than what she appeared to be when we talked thru text and facebook. i start to realize, she lives 30 miles away and i don't have a car, long distance never works out, and i don't want to ruin a good friendship so i never make my move on her.

i end up dating Girl A, we date for 6 months, yes, i've posted about her on here before.

Girl A: we date for 6 month's, she knows i chose her over Girl B, that i chose her over everything else, yet, she still cheats, we break up but i eventually give her a 2nd chance, we date for a few months before she cheats again, thats the end of it with her.

Girl B: completly stop's talking to me, deletes me off facebook, later ends up attempting suicide by O.D, ends up in jail for drugs, dates a few horrible guys, speed up to Thanksgiving last month, me, my dad and sister eat with her family at their house, she's purprously not there because she made plans to be elsewhere.
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think about this, what if i would have chose Girl B, would she have still attempted to O.D or be on drugs? would it have worked?

BUT

In the end, i would be sitting here asking myself, what if i went with Girl A instead?

i just realized this entire situation i was in was a Lose/Lose for me, one way or another, i was going to lose a friendship, in the case, i lost 2
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby BigBoss » Dec 6th, '12, 07:45

We've seen your pics. There are no girls. You're lying.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Eedee » Dec 6th, '12, 07:56

There's really no way in knowing what exactly would happen; what ifs are tricky.

You took the right decision in not blowing your friendship with Girl B, it just so happened Girl A was a bitch and cheated twice on you. That's not on you, that's completely her. You took the right path, the one you wanted to take and what your heart told you to do... It sounds cliche as fuck, but it's true. You took the path your heart told you to do and you can't beat yourself up over it.

From my experience, girls like Girl B are like that no matter what... you dating her wouldn't change that, she'd probably just do drugs behind your back, if we're being honest. Might not have tried suicide, but definitely would still be doing drugs.

The past is the past, let it make you stronger. Learn from it and let it help you make better choices in the future so that you'll find happiness.

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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Block » Dec 6th, '12, 10:05

Feels are for pussies. You ain't no PUA.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby macdaddy019967 » Dec 6th, '12, 10:11

@block has no idea what he is talking about. He is a fat virgin

Take advice from me, forget about it and move on
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby SoldierShady » Dec 6th, '12, 10:48

Bitch move awwn. The second someone cheats, they're gone for good. And never associate yourself with anyone who does drugs i don't care how hot they are or how symmetrical her pussy lips are.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby SliK » Dec 6th, '12, 10:50

I have a better Girl A vs Girl B story, but it depresses me to think about.
I think your mistake is falling for the person you used to know, even though she doesn't exist anymore (in either girl).
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Atone » Dec 6th, '12, 11:14

Eedee was very right and i agree with Silk as well

i've just been thinkin about this alot recently cuz me and Girl B's family have been talking alot more, but she pretty much avoids me and it sucks, hell, i was lookin thru boxes yesterday to find a copy of the Lease for the house and found some old pictures of me and Girl B, from back when we was in diapers, to some pictures of us as we grew up, me, her, and her brother were like best friends back then, my dad was there for them cuz thier father was a drunken bastard, and still is lol.

but it stings a bit, knowing at one point this girl was texting me 24/7, telling me how she can't wait to see me, to now, where she makes other plan's to purpously avoid me on Thanksgiving, it fucks you up a bit.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby SliK » Dec 6th, '12, 11:29

Yeah, I know man. I tell myself no girl is worth it, you know? But that's not true. Lol, not at all. Sometimes there is a girl and you know she's perfect, but life gets in the way. I use to think life worked out for people, that good things happened to good people. But you have to fight so fucking hard to get the things you want. This isn't Hollywood.. In two years time you won't pass each other on the street and magically reconnect.. In 2 years life will have driven you even further apart, probably to the point that there is nothing left that you can do except let go, and that can be the hardest thing of all. Even harder than fighting for a girl you think is uninterested.

Atone, on some real shit, if you want this girl you make it happen because that's the only way you'll ever get her. Fight for her and don't let a fucking thing stand in your way and most importantly don't take no for an answer.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Block » Dec 6th, '12, 11:43

macdaddy019967 wrote:@block has no idea what he is talking about. He is a fat virgin

Take advice from me, forget about it and move on

Mac stays AFC for life.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby DƎRDYPK » Dec 6th, '12, 11:46

^ loob, oh god that's brilliant

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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby BILI » Dec 6th, '12, 12:08

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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Trimss » Dec 6th, '12, 17:40

HA! You got cheated on!



Girl A is a cunt.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Eedee » Dec 7th, '12, 00:01

^ Posting videos that start automatically is against the rules, I think, Trimss. Just so ya know.
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Re: Choice A or Choice B

Postby Trimss » Dec 7th, '12, 00:03

Eedee wrote:^ Posting videos that start automatically is against the rules, I think, Trimss. Just so ya know.


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