here's the situation, a few years ago i had a choice between 2 girls
Girl A: I met when i was 13, we dated but were broken up cuz my parents chose to move to Iowa, 10 years later, we moved back here to Florida, coincadentally, this girl lived 5 blocks away.
Girl B: we knew each other when we were in diapers, our parents knew each other for years before we were even born. growing up we both had alot of feelings for each other, but, our parents got in a fight over money and stopped talking, years went by, in 2010 they started talking again, i found her on facebook, got to talking, we realized we both had feleings and what not, after awhile those feelings came back. knowing my parents planned on moving back to florida, we planned on dating once i got back.
Now, fast forward to me moving to Florida.
Girl A: Tell's me she's single, and wants to be with me, tho, me and Girl B already made plan's, so i tell her now is not the right time for me to get in a relationship, cuz i wanted to wait to see how me and the other girl would work.
Girl B: lives 30 miles away, and doesn't talk to me as much as we used to, one day we all visit each other, but she barley makes convo with me, i felt as if she was a totally different person than what she appeared to be when we talked thru text and facebook. i start to realize, she lives 30 miles away and i don't have a car, long distance never works out, and i don't want to ruin a good friendship so i never make my move on her.
i end up dating Girl A, we date for 6 months, yes, i've posted about her on here before.
Girl A: we date for 6 month's, she knows i chose her over Girl B, that i chose her over everything else, yet, she still cheats, we break up but i eventually give her a 2nd chance, we date for a few months before she cheats again, thats the end of it with her.
Girl B: completly stop's talking to me, deletes me off facebook, later ends up attempting suicide by O.D, ends up in jail for drugs, dates a few horrible guys, speed up to Thanksgiving last month, me, my dad and sister eat with her family at their house, she's purprously not there because she made plans to be elsewhere.
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think about this, what if i would have chose Girl B, would she have still attempted to O.D or be on drugs? would it have worked?
BUT
In the end, i would be sitting here asking myself, what if i went with Girl A instead?
i just realized this entire situation i was in was a Lose/Lose for me, one way or another, i was going to lose a friendship, in the case, i lost 2