Hard To Love Again

[Atone]

This topic is for anybody who's ever had somebody walk out on them in their life,

Alright, so, most of you know the story of what my mom did, and at the moment, there is still drama goin on with that, she for some reason feels the need to contact my dad for shit that don't even matter, bullshit lies like she still loves us...she don't love shit cuz she's a coward ass bitch who runs from every problem she has in life, but that's whatever.

off the subject of my mom, recently, i found a girl, no relationship has started yet, i don't think, i mean, she calls me babe in text's, and things like that, which always seem to make me smile, but i also have a legit fear, what if i end up falling deep for her, and she ends up hurting me as well?

for those of you who have been thru something similar, having a parent, or somebody you trust walking out on your life, have you had fears that every other person you find is going to do the same? i havn't dated in 2 years, this girl is the 1st serious thing i've had since going thru the drama with my ex, and after my mom left i really havn't trusted to many people who tried to get close to me.

but again, for those who been thru things like this, how would you go about it? have you been able to trust anybody else? do you have fears that somebody else will leave you?

[BigBoss]

stfu or rape then stick your dick in her pooper

[Atone]

damn you're a faggot man

[PAINKILLƎR]

Just give it a shot man.

[AbramIsaac]

This is like the definition of what people call "mommy issues".

You can't really let that define the rest of your life. My mom left when I was like 4, and I don't harbor any kind of bad feelings toward her about it. Sometimes people have to leave; that doesn't make it right, and it doesn't diminish the selfishness of it, but that's the way it is. I tend to think that time gives people understanding of the actions of their parents best, and this is likely no exception.

Anyway, I'm not really into the idea of jumping into relationships before you know who you are. For most people, they're just not there yet, and end up getting into something before they're ready to do so. That goes both ways though, so you really just have to look at the other person and make a judgement call.

[cityfan31]

You'll eventually have to take the plunge. If she seems cool, go for it.

Just be aware that most relationships don't last, despite good intentions on both sides.

[BigBoss]

I'm the faggot but you're the one who's to scared to get closer to a girl? Lel

Stop being a bitch and just get closer to her, you don't have anything to lose

[12characters]

This is like the definition of what people call "mommy issues".

You can't really let that define the rest of your life. My mom left when I was like 4, and I don't harbor any kind of bad feelings toward her about it. Sometimes people have to leave; that doesn't make it right, and it doesn't diminish the selfishness of it, but that's the way it is. I tend to think that time gives people understanding of the actions of their parents best, and this is likely no exception.

Anyway, I'm not really into the idea of jumping into relationships before you know who you are. For most people, they're just not there yet, and end up getting into something before they're ready to do so. That goes both ways though, so you really just have to look at the other person and make a judgement call.

Be my therapist?

[DƎRDYPK]

DON'TCHU WANT SOMEBODY TO LOVE?

[Atone]

well to update things, i kinda put aside all the shit from my past, the more i talk to this girl the more i realize, if i take it slow things have a better chance to work, she makes me happy day in, day out and there's no reason i should worry about getting hurt.

i know i've posted some weird shit on here in the past, bad attempts to be funny, acting rude and all that, but i'm in a way different mood recently, cuz of her, and it's a good thing, i think soon you'll be seeing some upbeat post's by me, if i post all that much at all, idk, it feels good to be this damn happy for once.

[BigBoss]

well to update things, i kinda put aside all the shit from my past, the more i talk to this girl the more i realize, if i take it slow things have a better chance to work, she makes me happy day in, day out and there's no reason i should worry about getting hurt.

i know i've posted some weird shit on here in the past, bad attempts to be funny, acting rude and all that, but i'm in a way different mood recently, cuz of her, and it's a good thing, i think soon you'll be seeing some upbeat post's by me, if i post all that much at all, idk, it feels good to be this damn happy for once.

Lurk more pls

[HeySamantha]

I'm happy to hear you met somebody, and that you were smart by moving into things slowly. Does she know about what you're going though? If not, you should let her know and she'll understand why you're being the way you are.

I know the feeling, my dad just left my mom after being together for 35 years. Moved in with some chick he's worked with and they just closed on a new house this week. I've only recently spoken to him for the first time in almost 2 years. I spent almost all of my life with him every day, it was really weird for him to suddenly be gone.

Some people are better off out of your life, like someone else said in this topic. People suck, but that doesn't mean everyone does. I need to work on that myself because I'm going through the same thing with guys, that you were with girls. It's hard to remember that not everyone is the same way as your mom and my dad, but it's true... they're not all like those two.

Keep doing things the smart way and you'll be fine

Lurk more pls

[Chet Starr]

[Atone]

I'm happy to hear you met somebody, and that you were smart by moving into things slowly. Does she know about what you're going though? If not, you should let her know and she'll understand why you're being the way you are.

I know the feeling, my dad just left my mom after being together for 35 years. Moved in with some chick he's worked with and they just closed on a new house this week. I've only recently spoken to him for the first time in almost 2 years. I spent almost all of my life with him every day, it was really weird for him to suddenly be gone.

Some people are better off out of your life, like someone else said in this topic. People suck, but that doesn't mean everyone does. I need to work on that myself because I'm going through the same thing with guys, that you were with girls. It's hard to remember that not everyone is the same way as your mom and my dad, but it's true... they're not all like those two.

Keep doing things the smart way and you'll be fine

Lurk more pls

She definitley knows, she's in the circle of friends that pretty much know every thing about me, she's a great person and i'm definitly lookin forward to whats coming


and BigBoss, whatever you say bud

[BigBoss]

All atone does is put his problems here, I get that some people don't have anyone to go to our whatever, I understand shit happens in life, but all he is is a tryhard. I still remember the pic he put up with the midget porn and bestiality tabs on his browser, if you need someone to talk to then find a irl friend or go to a site that's actually made for that type of thing. Gtfo or kill yourself atone