Question for da girls!!

[C-Game]

Hey it only applies for da older girls over 17 +
i know this question may sound weird but ...

Wen u reach da age , where u think u should think about marriage wat are da feelins thats comin to ur head???
if ur datin a guy do u question his future or question his love...
or do u expect security from him....
or wat do u expect..??

oki there will be some obvious wise ass answers by some dudes(* looks at ASP , bar , bestest ) in here , but it will be kool if some of da girls give some reall answers

[,-,'-{Bar}-',-,]

*holds back*


*runs*

[Shadyluva]

well....ii just qot baq wiith my ex....cuz he proved dat he was sorry and he showed me dat he needed/wanted me baq....well iim 17...but marriiaqe iis iin the baq of my miind...riite now at thiis aqe...iijust want 2 have fun and enjoy liife...ii wiill start thiinkiinq about marriiaqe after colleqe....when iim datiinq a quy...ii wud liike hiim 2 be actually doiinq sumthiinq wiith hiis liife...my bf qoes 2 colleqe and iis workiinq so hes set....the only tiime ii really questiioned my bf's love was when we were about 2 break up...other that dat...ii really dont questiion hiis love...wut ii expect from hiim iis honesty..most of the tiime...ii liike a quy where ii can spend my niiqhts just talkiinq 2 hiim...and beiinq wiith hiim....no matter where we are

[*MIRANDA*]

well uh im 19 so im not gonna get married anytime soon
but i guess if i would think bout marrying a guy
i wouldnt expect the guy to be perfect cause im not and i dont think thats realistic to expect from sumone else
you cant expect someone to come in yo life and make everything better cause thats way to much to ask from another person i guess
i would marry a guy that is honest and knows me good to a point were i at times wouldnt really have to speak ma mind cause he knows already ... getma point i just wanna guy that im in luv with and that i wanna be around and i think its importent that the guy feels tha same
i think you shouldnot to get married soon cause you should go trough sum stuff 2gether to know what u can expect from sumone if you go trough a bad time and visa versa
so uh yeah idk i just think when it happens you feel its right

[Shadyluva]

:-k well uh im 19 so im not gonna get married anytime soon
but i guess if i would think bout marrying a guy
i wouldnt expect the guy to be perfect cause im not and i dont think thats realistic to expect from sumone else
you cant expect someone to come in yo life and make everything better cause thats way to much to ask from another person i guess
i would marry a guy that is honest and knows me good to a point were i at times wouldnt really have to speak ma mind cause he knows already ... getma point i just wanna guy that im in luv with and that i wanna be around and i think its importent that the guy feels tha same
i think you shouldnot to get married soon cause you should go trough sum stuff 2gether to know what u can expect from sumone if you go trough a bad time and visa versa
so uh yeah idk i just think when it happens you feel its right

ii 100% aqree...ii don really expect much from sum1 eiither...as lonq as u feel the same way about me...were qood...as lonq as u can make me lauqh and make me feel qood...were qood...iit takes me so lonq 2 trust a quy cuz iive been hurt soo much iin the past that iin every relatiionshiip...iive qotten stronqer as a person...ii remember when ii 1st met my bf...ii diidnt really thiink iit wud work...then a month passed and ii was stiill liike ii dunno...and den another few months passed...iin my 6th month of beiinq wiith hiim...ii realiized dat ii luved hiim...den he started actiinq liike an iidiiot and beiinq a biitch iin our 9th month...ii broke iit off...now were baq 2qetha cuz he proved 2 me dat he does not how 2 treat a qiirl and he proved dat he rly does love me

[Curious]

1. You love me.
2. You have goals and ambition.
3. You know how to take care of a woman (emotional and physically )

Basically, those 3 things make MAN!


That's basically what it comes down to. Money.. and shit like that doesn't matter, just as long as you're trying to be something. Even if it doesn't work out, you tried, and you're not sittin on your ass all day playing video games.

totally agree - i'd only marry a guy who was head over heels in love with me and shoved it (check), knew what he wanted and had a direction in life, cause i need to be able to respect my man 'n i can't if he's a lazy couch potato (check), and someone who was good in... *remembers all the 12-year-olds in here* uh, never mind...

oh, 'n someone who'd put up with all my crap 'n still love me 'n tell me i look beautiful 'n sexy even with morning hair 'n no make-up (check)

think i already found him...

[hotcopper]

First, make sure you truly love the person. Do you know them to their true heart and soul and are you willing to let them know you in that way? That speaks to the level of security and comfort that your relationship provides to you. Are you compatible in everything from the routine everyday things to your views on politics, religion, raising kids, how to handle finances, etc.? That doesn't mean that the other person is just like you or even similar, just that the two of you can find some common ground and can show respect for each other's viewpoints- there's nothing wrong with a good debate or even an argument. Those things are healthy as long as they're conducted within certain boundaries (no name calling, nothing physical, no bringing up things from the past that should've been taken care of already, etc.). Are you friends? I mean, would you still want to know this person and have them in your life if you weren't involved romantically and sexually? Don't expect your significant other to "complete you"- you better come to the table mostly formed (as far as your personality is concerned) and you better not accept anything less from him/her. Does the person really know you- not any of the roles you play or the airs you put on- just you and are you appreciated on that level? If you have to play a certain role or be any way other than what you truly are to keep the person, the person doesn't really love you because they don't know the real you. Finally, make sure that there's a spark of chemistry between you- I don't just mean sexually, I mean on every level intellectually, emotionally, etc. . . . although the sex part is probably the most important (especially when it comes to making up after those arguments that I mentioned)

[$0 R3@L]

wow too much typin goin on in ere

*runs out*

[hotcopper]

heres a free peice of advice, fuck u lmao

Are you having a bad day today or something? There seems to be a common thread running through all your posts.

[Sophie]

heres a free peice of advice, fuck u lmao

Are you having a bad day today or something? There seems to be a common thread running through all your posts.

There's this thing called a joke.

[hotcopper]

I didn't think that you were talking to me and didn't want it to be any of my business.

And, I get a joke when it's a good one.

[hotcopper]

I was addressing Sophie's post with my second comment not yours.

[rhiannon]

-_- if u have nuthin nice 2 say dont say it

[HAYZI]

wow too much typin goin on in ere

*runs out*

yup same


*scarpers*

[C-Game]

yea i see ur point..one common word yall said was love...but wat if that thing is fake ... i mean it should be two way ryt??/ but wat if its one way...




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