One of my good friends wrote this, i shortened it down and saved the worthy parts i agree with him in a way(thought i should post it here, this blog was written by him):
Alright, i know i havent posted a blog in a while and i should feel sorry bout that. i should but i just dont. Anyways, todays topic came to me in a convo i had with steve while me and him was hangin out chattin. the convo went to a title women usually give to some guys called "brother status". both me and steve are nice guys and we do know how to treat a woman with respect. but you know, that happens to both me and steve when we try and get a girl to like us by helping out with their problems, doing favors, ect ect. and when we ask them out they always give this line to us "im sorry but i consider you a brother". that line always pisses me off because we dont spend all that time only to get brother status but at the same time we know we cant make you ladies love us. that has happened to me and some other friends of mine numerous times. but we usually just choke down the let down and still help out when u need us. what can i say, we arent complete assholes that would say "fuck you, im done with you." and then walk off, leaving you ladies upset.
when you say that to a guy that you know likes you that just makes us feel like we arent even good enough. its just not right, we took a big chance by confessing that we like you and want to try and date and then you ladies just ring us around. it pisses me the fuck off. is it because you ladies dated assholes before? or other things? but its just not right. we dont spend all that time and effort only to achieve brother status. but the nice guys accept it and we are thankful that we at least got that far. im tired..... but what can we nice guys really do?
nothin. but we are always there, listening to you when ur boyfriend treats u like shit, be there for you when you need us, listen to your problems and then try and help or comfort you. or where u tell us that you slept with your boyfriend and felt he used u for sex and then tell us in detail of it... and we listen. btw, it really does hurt us when u tell us that. (this has happened to me a few times by different girls getting brother status i mean) and im alright with that (brother status) because im glad that i at least got that far and ill always try and be there for you ladies but because of all that
im tired of having my feelings laughed about( like when women think its funny that you like them when u know u have no shot with them and then they make fun of you for it). or when a girl thinks all we are trying for is just to basically "fuck you". because of these actions ive decided
ladies, all i can say to you is the next time you give a nice guy brother status, think, just think about it. we may not look like hunks but at least we would never dream of beating you or other things those assholes do to you. maybe you should give us a chance. after all, thats all we are asking for really. btw ladies, im not posting this because im an asshole, im posting it because its just not right to do to a guy. peace....and i hope this does get through to a few of you ladies,
ok?