I Need Some Serious Advice

[-[Zach]-]

ok so here is the thing...my girlfriend isn't quite over her ex yet...she has went out with him at least twice that i know of and about 2 weeks ago...maybe 3 i'm not sure...she said shes finally moved on and wasn't going to talk to him anymore...but she seems to still be all sad and missing him. dedicating songs to him, and shes not sure if i'll ever be able to replace his spot in her heart and shes kind of acting weird and sad. she still loves him alot.....what should i do? i need some kind of advice....any would be really appreciated.

by the way we've been going out for 1 month 1 week and 2 days now.

[J Rmix]

should just try to talk to her a lot and call her lot. Also try to be with her when ever you can.
o and flowers lol

hope it helps

[-[Zach]-]

thank you man...i'll try to do my best

[J Rmix]

no problem man my longest relationship came to an end when we started not to talk..

[-[Zach]-]

oh i see...communication is really important then...but alot of times she just won't want to talk to me..

[scalia5]

alright..time for some advise....listen..you do what you think you do, but if you dont feel a connection then maybe its timr for YOU to do the moving on...i had the same problem with one of my gfs and what i did was i sat down with her..talked to her and worked things out...look into her eyes and tell her how you really feel...she'll accept your honesty and character to tell her how you really feel about whats going on...and also it'll show her that you care and that you're there for help when she needs it...but even if things dont work out and you brake up, tell her that you're there for her if she needs help. if you need anything else...i'd be glad to help you out and such....and yes communication is important

[-[Zach]-]

yea i feel you on that. i've thought about doing that...but shes kind of a stubborn person in a way and doesn't like to confront these situations.

[DelinQuent]

honestly, she's a broken girl. she needs time. if you stick around you're just the rebound. in my eyes its a bad situation for you to put yourself in. if you truly care you'll only end up hurt. even if she gets over him, it'll cause turmoil later on in the relationship. you'll never be able to feel like her heart is completely yours.

[-[Zach]-]

dude that is exactly how i feel but its like...i ain't going to lie about it this is my first time truly being in love...i don't want to let go but all these suspicions and all that...starts to hurt me. but what you said about me never being able to feel like her heart is completely mine is true

[Tash8]

women are more complicated than a soduku puzzle that's all blank

[noel]

Sorry man but she ain't ready for another relationship... yet!!

She sounds like she has to BE with someone cause she can't stand being alone...

And it sounds like you are her hanky (rebound) and once her tears are all dried up she will be more than likely off

Sorry...

Or you could just sit down and talk to her...

Good luck and I hope you find someone decent and if this doesn't work out... just take it as a life experience and not as baggage to drag to your next relationship

It sounds like you have a real heart there... don't let her fuck you up!!

Just saying...

[-[Zach]-]

shit mcmaybe...you are a funny mofo lol

but thank you all for the advice...for real i appreciate it...

okay, end of the day what noel said is pretty acurate but im suprised ya still there and tolerate stuff like "dedicating songs" how did you go about finding that out anyway?

well she told me she dedicated the song...its I Hate How Much I Love You or something like that by Rihanna

Sorry man but she ain't ready for another relationship... yet!!

She sounds like she has to BE with someone cause she can't stand being alone...

And it sounds like you are her hanky (rebound) and once her tears are all dried up she will be more than likely off

Sorry...

Or you could just sit down and talk to her...

Good luck and I hope you find someone decent and if this doesn't work out... just take it as a life experience and not as baggage to drag to your next relationship

It sounds like you have a real heart there... don't let her fuck you up!!

Just saying

yea i'll try to just use this as a life experience. thank you. i'm going to just wait and see what happens next with everything going on with her...because to be honest i am crazy in love with her...i'm just hoping i can get her to feel the same way about me.


once again thank you for all of your advice it really has helped me.