Friends with benefits.

[mcZu]

If both parties are cool with it, then there is no problem.

[Dr.Lecter]

yes, i would think less of a girl if i knew she had a fuck buddy, especially if i originally had a great deal of respect for her.

And i agree with Scott, i've noticed the same thing as well.

[mcZu]

If you think she [get's around] then don't play russian roulette with your dick.

Lol.

Well, again, it's hypocrisy, but, yeah, I would think less of that girl.

[Wic Kid]

well, that's what we call them here, but the more widely used term is "fuck buddy" i'm just wondering what people think of the whole fuck buddy idea. having no strings attached purely sexual relationship with someone.


thoughts?

What do we think of this? I thought thats pretty much all a man can ask...

[Wic Kid]

well, that's what we call them here, but the more widely used term is "fuck buddy" i'm just wondering what people think of the whole fuck buddy idea. having no strings attached purely sexual relationship with someone.


thoughts?

What do we think of this? I thought thats pretty much all a man can ask...

hmmm. an asshole man, yes. lol. but i like to be emotionally involved with the girl i'm having sex with, it makes the whole thing feel so much better.

this topic is more so about girls though.

I respect your opinion. But I think of it in a whole other way. Im 20 years old. Im not lookin for a long term relationship. Im leavin that for later. Now I just wanna have as much fun as possible. But thats just me.

[DƎRDYPK]

I wanna bitch with benefits
could the last girl I dated be kinda like a FWB?
I mean I did hit it the 1st night I met her

[Wic Kid]

nah i don't fancy her, she's just a friend who i respected quite a lot before i heard about this. plus she used to turn her nose down on ppl who slept around. hypocrite.

So accordin to you, she has to wait until she "falls in love" just so she could sleep with someone? Bullshit. If every girl thought like that, there wouldnt be any fuckin outside of relationships. What that girl is doin, is just satisfying her needs. Its just sex. And now you're calling her hypocrite? Let me tell you sumthin, Scotty, if you think that way...then you're a hypocrite. No offence.

[Wic Kid]

nah i don't fancy her, she's just a friend who i respected quite a lot before i heard about this. plus she used to turn her nose down on ppl who slept around. hypocrite.

So accordin to you, she has to wait until she "falls in love" just so she could sleep with someone? Bullshit. If every girl thought like that, there wouldnt be any fuckin outside of relationships. What that girl is doin, is just satisfying her needs. Its just sex. And now you're calling her hypocrite? Let me tell you sumthin, Scotty, if you think that way...then you're a hypocrite. No offence.

why am i a hypocrite? i've only had sex with 2 girls. and one of them was in a serious relationship. the other was a one night stand which was shit tbh, and put me off one night stands altogether. i felt cheap afterwards. how am i a hypocrite?

Because you judge. And that wasnt the point of my post. We're talkin about her, not you. Let the woman do whatever tha fuck she wants. If you dont like it, dont hang out with her anymore. Simple as that.

One more thing. It looks like you have sumthin against girls who have sex while not bein in relationship. Am I wrong or?...

Please say Im wrong.

[Wic Kid]

^ what do you think the word slut is for then? girls who sleep around. ofc i don't think it's okay.

And when it comes to guys sleepin around, thats okay?

[Wic Kid]

Scotty, are you playin with me?

[Wic Kid]

no. look, i'm not against it per say. but i wouldn't do it, and the people who do it, i get put off by them. like i said in my first post.

i'm not strictly against having sex for fun, but i do get put off a girl, if i know that she's slept around

Scott, Im not some chick you tryin to score with. You can sell that crappy story elsewhere.

But if you honestly think so... You're wastin your youth, my friend. You will regret it later, Im tellin you...smh

[Sophie]

Why on earth would you wanna sleep around? Imo sex should be special when you're in a proper relationship. I understand that in your teens/early 20's some people don't wanna settle down blabla, so sex with different people is what they want atm, and not a relationship...but it's just not for me. I'd feel incredibly dirty.

[Wic Kid]

Agree with Scott 100%, I could never touch a girl who did something like that.

Who did what, had sex?

[*MIRANDA*]

yeah not my cup of tea, id never do that, i would only sleep wiht a guy if i love him and he loves me back and were inna relationship
so one night stands or fuck buddy's are out of the question
just idk, i dont mind if other peeps do it , i mean to each their own but i dont think u should be so careless with yo body like that, seems u dont respect yoself allot to share sumthing special with just whoever, i know id feel so wrong after i would do it, id feel cheap so yeah..
when i hear bout girls sleeping around like that i think theyre cheap but so are the guys that go for girls like that..

[Wic Kid]

@ wic_kid, i'm sorry but that's just how i see it, i'm not trying to 'bullshit' you. and by looking at chett's/sophies comments, it seems like i'm not the only one. i am just not attracted to sluts. end of.

Well, what you call slut, I call normal girl. But what YOU call a slut. Ofc Im not gonna have sex with a girl who has slept with 100 guys before turnin 20. Im just sayin that sex is not that big of deal.

And damn, when did guys start thinkin like this?...