Lessons Learnt

[AspirinE]

Fucking up a whole year in school. Probably the worst mistake i ever made,
Its a miracle that i actually made it to colledge.

The way i lived was like "Fuck tommorow" ,nowi think everyone should realize is that, u have to take tommorow into credit..

But if i hadnt made that mistake, i think there could have been a lot of things that id miss out on... I think mistakes must be made, but only once for every kind of mistake.

[misa]

bein so naive n trustin anyone n thinkin tht everyone is just one big happy family i didnt really understand tht ppl would mean hurtin other ppl i got really disappointed in lots of my *friends* but learned tht u really shouldn't trust anyone cause sooner or later they will mess up

[Curious]

Worst mistake i ever made was cheating on my ex-bf To cause somebody so much hurt and pain and shatter someone's trust in me and the relationship we'd built is something I have to carry with me for the rest of my life, and although we cleared the air afterwards and he forgave me and we moved on from there (there were reasons why I did it, it wasn't just a spur of the moment thing, although that doesn't make it right) I'll NEVER do something like that to anyone ever again, it's too devastating to toy with ppls feelings like that. The trust and security will forever be gone at some level, even though it may be restored on the surface, and I don't think many relationships can survive the tiny grain of resentment that'll always be left. So I guess I learned to be a firm believer in monogamy...

[Curious]

bein so naive n trustin anyone n thinkin tht everyone is just one big happy family i didnt really understand tht ppl would mean hurtin other ppl i got really disappointed in lots of my *friends* but learned tht u really shouldn't trust anyone cause sooner or later they will mess up

Misa, I understand your feelings, it's so devastating when ppl hurt you and it's a good thing not to trust everyone, but pls don't think that everybody in your life will "mess up" at some point and hurt you, I know that there will be ppl in your life who are genuine without ulterior motives, and sooner or later you'll find out who you can really count on and you'll have a handful of really good, close friends that you can turn to whenever you need love and support. Just - trust me on this one

[Curious]

Awwww thats sad Curious. But then again I think we all learn from our mistakes.

I don't think I could ever cheat on anyone, I don't know, I guess I'm not the kind of person to hurt people's feelings, I like to be nice to people lol. But I would feel really bad if I ever did it. But I'm only young so yeah I haven't.....and I hope I don't ever. If I did I guess I would learn from it, but still feel bad lol

Just take my advice and don't do it, it's not worth it But we're not always in control of what we do, I always said that I wouldn't cheat on someone but I did and there's just no excuse, it's nobody's fault but mine. And anyone with just a hint of a conscience would feel bad afterwards, you'd have to be pretty cynical not to.

[misa]

bein so naive n trustin anyone n thinkin tht everyone is just one big happy family i didnt really understand tht ppl would mean hurtin other ppl i got really disappointed in lots of my *friends* but learned tht u really shouldn't trust anyone cause sooner or later they will mess up

Misa, I understand your feelings, it's so devastating when ppl hurt you and it's a good thing not to trust everyone, but pls don't think that everybody in your life will "mess up" at some point and hurt you, I know that there will be ppl in your life who are genuine without ulterior motives, and sooner or later you'll find out who you can really count on and you'll have a handful of really good, close friends that you can turn to whenever you need love and support. Just - trust me on this one

yea it is devastatin but the reality is tht ppl mess up they just do n mostly after u trust them so i figured if iam not close to them they wont b able to hurt me iam not sayin everyone means to but they do it anywayz n i dont really think u need the support u may like it but u dont need it cause at the end it is only u

[Curious]

yea it is devastatin but the reality is tht ppl mess up they just do n mostly after u trust them so i figured if iam not close to them they wont b able to hurt me iam not sayin everyone means to but they do it anywayz n i dont really think u need the support u may like it but u dont need it cause at the end it is only u

It's just so sad that you think that We all need love and support or we'll become very lonely down the road. Humans are social beings and we rely on the relationships we form with other ppl to fulfil the basic needs we have of security and comfort aso. I think it's wise of you not to trust anyone you meet but let them earn your trust, but it's really hard to go through life alone without someone to lean on when things get rough, and sometimes they do.
I have a bunch of more or less close friends, and we "use" each other for different purposes, but I have 2 soul mates that I know will always be there for me no matter what happens, just as I'll always be there for them, and it's really nice to have someone that you can trust with anything knowing that no matter what they won't hate you or stab you in the back or something. I really hope you'll find someone like that some day, but if you go through life thinking you won't, well then you won't.

[yoshi]

sometimes i speak too fast and think too slow.. i told my friend that he annoyed me once [it was like 3 yrs ago] and i still feel bad, cause he was a great buddy and now it ain't the same as before - we rarely talk to eachother from that day i always think about what i have to say. [or at least i try to lmaof ]

[Curious]

sometimes i speak too fast and think too slow.. i told my friend that he annoyed me once [it was like 3 yrs ago] and i still feel bad, cause he was a great buddy and now it ain't the same as before - we rarely talk to eachother from that day i always think about what i have to say. [or at least i try to lmaof ]

It's just not easy being human is it sometimes we just say things we regret seconds later, and sometimes ppl misinterpret things we say, and it's not always enough to apologise cause the damage is done and you can't take back what you said or did...

[yoshi]

It's just not easy being human is it sometimes we just say things we regret seconds later, and sometimes ppl misinterpret things we say, and it's not always enough to apologise cause the damage is done and you can't take back what you said or did...

yeah, i know. i wish i could take it back, but i can't and he didn't misinterpret it, cause i said it clearly enough..
i just hope i won't say something that stupid again..

[Curious]

misinterpret is the worst though cos ppl get upset and you didnt even mean it that way then u just wished you had phrazed it better

I know what u mean - it's just really difficult to know how other ppl's gonna interpret what u say because we decode messages differently and filter them through our own personal filters, and at the same time some ppl are just more sensitive than others. It's really hard when it comes to writing I think; I know that ppl sometimes get offended by what I write because it looks so much more "bombastic" and categorical in print than if I'd been sitting in front of them and they could see my facial expressions and gestures...

[Fi.J.]

i've so many things to tell about this topic.the worst error I made caused me the worst period of my life..it was horrible

[Curious]

i've so many things to tell about this topic.the worst error I made caused me the worst period of my life..it was horrible

are you just trying to create suspense or what? are you gonna tell us what you did? i mean, if u got a lot of things to tell, tell them, don't just leave it at this

[yoshi]

i have learned to no longer care what other people think or say about me. i live the way i want to live and i am the way i am...

same here i usually don't care what ppl think about me, unless they are in some way connected with my persona [family, friends, buddies] cause the others simply don't know me..

[$0 R3@L]

putting my trust and respect into people who decieded to back stab me